Imagine giving up your career to be a stay-at-home mom (SAHM), only to find yourself doing 100% of the chores and still paying for most of the household expenses. That’s exactly what happened to one woman, who never wanted to be a SAHM in the first place. After her husband refused to help out and treated her like a live-in maid, she decided to give him an ultimatum: either give her 50% of his salary for household and baby expenses and contribute at least 25% at home, or she’s going back to work. Let’s dive into this dramatic tale!
The Reluctant SAHM
The Decision to Quit
The Chores Imbalance
Exhaustion Sets In
The Benevolent God Act
The Financial Strain
Confronting the Issue ️
His Response
The Ultimatum
The Fit He Throws
Sulking and Pouting
Her Final Thoughts
The Mom’s Dilemma: Live-In Maid or Go Back to Work? ♀️
This stay-at-home mom never wanted to give up her career, but she did so for her child. However, her husband’s refusal to help with chores and contribute financially pushed her to the breaking point. She gave him an ultimatum: either give her 50% of his salary for household and baby expenses and help out at home, or she’s going back to work. With her old job eager to have her back, she’s ready to make a change. But is she in the wrong? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this situation…
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NTA. Go back to work and secure your financial future!
NTA demands equal financial contribution from husband, sparking debate.
NTA but lack of financial planning led to this mess
NTA. Husband not contributing financially and treating her poorly.
NTA!! This comment empathizes with the OP’s situation and encourages her to prioritize her own well-being.
NTA, but 100% of his income belongs to the family!
NTA, what is she getting out of this marriage?
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NTA offers husband a taste of his own medicine.
NTA. SAHM deserves fair compensation for her 24/7 job
NTA AT ALL!! Men aren’t automatically put on a pedestal anymore
NTA – SAHM deserves support from husband for child and home.
NTA: Husband prioritizes live-in mommy over his own baby
Money talk needed! ESH. Stay-at-home parent vs career-driven spouse.
NTA. Husband should financially support you and share household responsibilities.
NTA, work for your happiness!
ESH – Lack of communication led to an unacceptable situation. Prioritize discussing family priorities and seek couples counseling.
NTA! Empower yourself financially and leave the entitled leech.
Messed up relationship? Everyone’s the a**hole!
“NTA, but you both need to have a serious conversation “
ESH – Family counseling needed to resolve childish behavior.
