Imagine this: you’re living your life, making big plans for the future, when suddenly, you’re thrown a curveball. That’s exactly what happened in the tale of a 27-year-old woman, her boyfriend, and their roommate, ‘Becca.’ The couple had baby dreams, but when they decided to help a friend in need, those dreams led to a dramatic clash. As they say, no good deed goes unpunished. Dive into the story that’s got everyone talking about boundaries, friendship, and the unexpected twists of life. ✨
The Plot Thickens ✍️

Introducing the Cast

Baby Talk Before Lockdown

A Friend in Need

Opening Doors and Hearts ❤️

The Roommate Agreement

A Warning Precedent ⚠️

Full Disclosure or Dealbreaker? ️

Reluctant Roomie ♀️

The Decision is Made ✅

Pregnancy Joy and Dilemmas ♀️

Sharing the Big News

Roommate’s Rage

Stressed and Overworked

No Room for a Baby ❌

A Friend’s Frank Response ️

Privacy vs. Transparency

My Life, My Rules

The Great Roommate Baby Debate: Who’s Right?
In the ultimate showdown of personal plans versus shared space, our soon-to-be mom is caught in a whirlwind of excitement and controversy. ️ With a baby on the way and a roommate’s patience wearing thin, the drama unfolds like a soap opera in a two-bedroom apartment. But the question remains: should life be put on hold for the sake of friendship, or is it every woman for herself in the game of life? As the plot thickens, emotions run high, and opinions are as divided as a split rent check. Let’s dive into the heart of the matter and unravel the web of feelings and fairness. ️♀️
NTA comment and replies support OP’s decision with fiery agreement

Supportive of OP’s boundaries. Time for friend to find different living arrangements

Generous roommate sets boundaries for her future, facing entitlement backlash
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Conflicted about pregnancy announcement timing, but 100% NTA overall

Setting boundaries with a roommate: NTA for standing your ground

Navigating roommate tensions over baby plans with empathy and understanding
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Supportive boundaries! Your kindness doesn’t mean sacrificing your own life

Supportive comment encourages understanding and patience for overwhelmed roommate

Living together for a year during pregnancy? That’s full-blown moving in.

Congratulations! You set clear boundaries and helped selflessly

Not the a**hole for not putting life on hold, sorry Becca
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Navigating baby plans and boundaries without stepping on toes

Setting boundaries with a guest-turned-roommate

Setting boundaries: NTA warned roommate about baby plans

Honesty is key . Your body, your news, your rules .
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Roommate’s baby plans clash with boundaries. Time for a talk!

Setting boundaries with a roommate
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Plenty of time to save and move out before baby

Roommate boundaries: kindness doesn’t equal obligation. No a-hole here

Roommate grateful for honesty about baby plans, asserts apartment authority

YTA for baby plans during pandemic; sparks debate on selfishness

Pregnancy during pandemic: YTA or justifiable decision? Let’s discuss

Setting boundaries and standing your ground in your own space

Setting boundaries with a baby on the way Give her notice to find her own place
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Stand your ground! She needs to find her own place

Setting boundaries with a roommate about baby plans

Roommate’s unrealistic expectations about pregnancy living arrangements. Congrats on pregnancy

Spotting the reverse situation? Let’s dive into this juicy debate!
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Setting boundaries and living your life . Congrats on the baby!
