We’ve all had our fair share of roommate disagreements, but this one takes the cake! One roommate is furious after they claim their roommate failed to wake them up for an important appointment. But who’s really responsible for making sure we’re up and ready to face the day? Let’s dive into this dramatic tale and find out!
The Nap-Time Text

Shower Time

First Wake-Up Attempt ⏰

“Let Me Sleep Longer”

Second Wake-Up Attempt ️

Laundry Request

Aggravated Roommate

The Boyfriend’s House

The Wake-Up Defense

Fault and Responsibility

“Being a Decent Person”

The Time Argument ⌚

Grown-Up Problems

The Great Wake-Up Debate: Who’s the Real Culprit?
So, who’s really at fault here? One roommate claims they tried to wake up their napping friend multiple times, only to be met with resistance. The napper insists that if they had known the time, they would have gotten up. But is it really someone else’s responsibility to make sure we’re awake and ready for our plans? Let’s check out the top responses from the internet to see what they think about this heated roommate debate!
Roommate naps on OP’s bed, refuses to move, and blames OP.

Newcomer to AITA finds post fascinating, advises OP to ditch roommate.

Roommate sleeping on your bed and refusing to wake up? NTA!

Use ice cubes to wake up roommate, NTA suggests.

Roommate napping on your bed? Definitely odd. NTA wins.

Roommate needs to grow up and take responsibility.

Roommate cancels wake up calls, declares NTA. Savage
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OP needs to stand up to toxic roommate or break lease

Roommate wants a mom, not a roommate. NTA.

Stand up for yourself and set boundaries.

Roommate drama: NTA tried waking up roommates, not babysitter

Roommate drama: NTA did everything reasonable, rude and irrational roommate.

Don’t be their alarm! NTA for not waking up roommate

Don’t be a doormat! NTA, set some boundaries

Roommate didn’t communicate, NTA.

Roommate takes bed, makes OP clear own, commenter outraged

Assertiveness needed. Don’t be a doormat.

Roommate needs a wake-up call. Commenter is enraged. NTA.

To wake or not to wake? That is the awkward question.

Is the roommate actually an ex-girlfriend? Set boundaries ASAP.

Roommate falls asleep in bed, refuses to wake up. NTA.

Don’t be a doormat Stand up for yourself!

Roommate acting like a child grow up already

Roommate not adult, taking you for granted. Set boundaries. NTA.

Roommate expects OP to wake her up, but OP is NTA

Roommate sleeps on bed, doesn’t set alarm, NTA for being upset

Roommate sleeps on OP’s bed and demands they clean it. NTA.

Don’t let your roommate’s laziness ruin your sleep schedule.

Roommate needs to manage their time better, NTA

Roommate drama: NTA for not being a mind reader alarm ☑

Roommate drama: Mind-reading required for basic decency? NTA wins.

Roommate refuses to get up and naps in your bed? Move out

Set boundaries and prioritize self-care. You’re NTA.
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Roommate’s entitlement issues cause drama. NTA for setting boundaries.

Roommate naps in OP’s bed with laundry, demands OP move it. NTA.

Setting boundaries is crucial in any relationship.

NTA, roommates need to grow up and take responsibility

Stand up for yourself and say ‘no’ to unreasonable demands. NTA

Roommate treating OP like a partner/parent. NTA, get new roommate.

Roommate too lazy to clean bed, expects OP to wake them up. NTA.

Roommate drama: Taking responsibility and telling them to f**k off.

Don’t waste time arguing with a stubborn roommate

Roommate expects too much, needs a reality check.

Don’t be a personal alarm clock ⏰, NTA got it right

Former roommate shares personal experience with waking up difficulties.

Set boundaries and get a lock . NTA.

Don’t be a pushover! Stand up to bullying roommates

Roommate didn’t communicate plans. NTA for not knowing.

Roommate needs to stand up for themselves

Stop enabling, get a lock, and be a roommate not parent

Roommate sleeping in your bed? NTA for not waking them up

Roommate’s behavior is unacceptable. Get a lock for privacy.

Don’t let them take advantage of you. You deserve better.

Roommate refuses to leave OP’s bed and demands chores. NTA.
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Roommate sleeps on OP’s bed, refuses to wake up. NTA.

Don’t be a doormat , set boundaries and stick to them.

Roommate refuses responsibility for waking up, blames others. NTA.

NTA, but OP needs to prioritize their own needs and boundaries.

You’re NTA for not waking up your roommate. ⏰

Set hard boundaries or continue being walked all over. YTA.

Confusion over roommate’s behavior and relationship boundaries

Don’t be a victim, stand up for yourself or move out

Roommate nightmare: Why clean up their mess and bed?
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Don’t take responsibility for someone else’s morning routine!

OP needs to stand up to their roommate taking advantage.
