Expecting a baby is an exciting time, but it can also bring out some unwanted behavior from family members. One woman found herself in a sticky situation when her mother-in-law (MIL) just couldn’t keep her hands off her baby bump. Despite having a history of abuse and a strong aversion to being touched, our mom-to-be tried to be understanding and asked her in-laws to simply ask before touching her belly. But when her MIL crossed the line at her baby shower, she couldn’t hold back any longer.
Baby on the Way!

Boundaries, Please!

In-Laws’ Unwanted Touches

Asking for Respect

Ignoring Her Wishes

Baby Shower Time!

More Family, More Problems

Caught Red-Handed ️

Enough is Enough!

Putting MIL in Her Place

Shocked Reactions

MIL’s Complaint

Standing Her Ground

MIL Leaves Upset

FIL’s Name-Calling

Mom-to-Be Fights Back Against Boundary-Stomping MIL
After countless attempts to set boundaries with her in-laws, our pregnant protagonist finally had enough when her MIL touched her belly without permission at her baby shower. In a moment of frustration, she removed her MIL’s hand and spoke to her like a child, reminding her of the importance of asking first. While her MIL was left embarrassed and upset, our mom-to-be stood her ground, refusing to apologize for asserting her boundaries. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Pregnancy doesn’t make you public property
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