Baby showers are meant to be a time of joy and celebration, but one mom-to-be found herself in an awkward and potentially offensive situation. She’s 6 months pregnant and her baby shower is just around the corner. With her being super white British and her partner being British Indian, one of her friends suggested a game that left her feeling uneasy.
The Game Idea
Tea Chart Inspiration ☕
From Tea to Skin Color
Not On Board
Partner’s Opinion
Update: Friends Lost
Friend’s Defense ️
Not Directed at Them?
Disturbing Bonus
Divided Friendships Over Controversial Game
The mom-to-be decided to put her foot down and ban the game, but not without consequences. Her friend group has now split into two – those who support her decision and those who think she’s overreacting. Even worse, she discovered that some of her friends are okay with using offensive phrases. It’s a heartbreaking situation, but at least she knows where her friends truly stand. Now let’s see what the internet has to say about this predicament…
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