A 24-year-old pregnant woman is facing a dilemma as her in-laws pressure her to induce labor for their Thanksgiving plans. With her due date falling just before the holiday, her husband’s large family is eager to celebrate together. However, they’ve taken things too far by suggesting she change her baby’s birth date to accommodate their schedules. The woman, already dealing with the anxiety of her first pregnancy, is left feeling disrespected and overwhelmed.
The In-Laws’ Request

Family Invasion

Thanksgiving Plans

Change of Plans

Induction Pressure

Anger and Anxiety

Stressed and Terrified

Thanksgiving Priorities ♀️

Boundary Struggles

Safety Measures

Update: Setting Boundaries

Relationship Uncertainty

Standing Up for Herself and Her Baby
After feeling disrespected and overwhelmed by her in-laws’ demands to induce labor for their Thanksgiving plans, the pregnant woman and her husband finally set boundaries. They’ve informed the family that they’re not comfortable hosting them during this time and are working on finding alternative arrangements. While their relationship with the in-laws may be strained, the couple is focusing on prioritizing their transition into parenthood. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Cancel the visit! You won’t want to entertain guests post-birth

NTA for refusing to induce labor for family’s Thanksgiving plans
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Stand your ground and prioritize your own well-being and comfort

Pregnant woman pressured to induce labor for Thanksgiving plans. Commenters outraged.
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Medical risks of non-medical inductions discussed. NTA.

Pregnant woman pressured to induce labor for in-laws’ Thanksgiving plans . Commenter advises to stand ground and not take induction lightly.

Lie to get out of Thanksgiving plans for the safety of your baby
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Entitled family pressures pregnant woman to induce labor

NTA! Don’t let them pressure you into an unnecessary induction

Supportive comment receives agreement, suggests subreddit for similar stories.

Pregnancy is a significant experience, your wishes deserve to be front and centre

Pregnant woman pressured to induce labor for Thanksgiving plans . Commenter advises to skip the holiday and stay safe

Fellow pregnant woman shares solidarity, advises to stand up for oneself

Setting boundaries with in-laws during first pregnancy

Pregnant woman stands up for her and her baby’s safety

Don’t let family pressure you into unnecessary medical procedures
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Don’t let family pressure you into inducing labor for convenience

NTA stands firm against absurd Thanksgiving birth induction request

Family pressures pregnant woman to induce labor for Thanksgiving plans

ESH for prioritizing Thanksgiving plans over newborn’s health
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Don’t let them ruin your peace . NTA, stand your ground.

NTA! Set boundaries with entitled in-laws for healthy family dynamic

Pregnant woman pressured to induce labor for Thanksgiving plans . Commenter supports her decision to cancel.

Experienced mom advises against induction for Thanksgiving plans

First-time mom advised to avoid hosting guests after giving birth

NTA! Don’t let them pressure you into risking your health

Don’t let in-laws decide your child’s birthday

New mom pressured to induce labor for Thanksgiving plans

ESH for pressuring early induction and imposing visit during pandemic. ♀️

Setting boundaries with family during pregnancy is crucial

New mom warns against Thanksgiving visitors, stresses milk supply concerns

Cancel plans, prioritize health. Don’t be a doormat

New mom doesn’t want in-laws over for Thanksgiving ♀️

Stand up for yourself and your baby. NTA

Polite and assertive response to family’s Thanksgiving pressure.

Prioritizing personal health over family’s plans

Don’t induce labor for Thanksgiving plans . Uninvite inconsiderate family.

Cancel Thanksgiving, prioritize your health and newborn. NTA

New mom gives advice on why inducing labor is a bad idea

Cancel Thanksgiving, focus on baby. NTA.

Doctor’s Covid policy supports OP’s decision, in-laws are exhausting

Supportive comment defends woman’s right to safe birth experience

Stand up for your baby’s health and your own. NTA

Commenter warns against hosting Thanksgiving with newborn during pandemic
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Don’t induce labor for Thanksgiving plans! Family’s being selfish

Put yourself first , not family’s Thanksgiving plans

Giving birth is tough, plan for a month of quiet . In-laws, NO means NO!

Setting boundaries during delivery is crucial. Only allow necessary people

A cautionary tale about inducing labor for convenience

Don’t let anyone walk all over you, stand your ground! NTA

Commenter advises pregnant woman to prioritize her health over family.

NTA. New family takes precedence over entitled Thanksgiving plans.
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NTA shuts down pressure to induce labor for Thanksgiving plans

Invitation rescinded, NTA stands up to family’s Thanksgiving pressure

New mom suggests blaming OB to cancel Thanksgiving induction request

New mom advised to prioritize her health and baby’s safety

Family pressures pregnant woman to induce labor for Thanksgiving plans

Prioritize your health and newborn. Husband should handle family pressure.

Inductions are not for convenience, NTA. Focus on yourself and baby

Engaging NTA comment urges pregnant couple to plan a getaway

Cancel Thanksgiving plans for baby’s health and sanity. NTA
