Pregnant Woman Lays Down the Law: Fix Racist Language or No Grandbaby Time!

Imagine being 30 weeks pregnant and having to deal with family drama, especially when it comes to racism. One woman found herself in this exact situation, as she’s in an interracial relationship with a black partner and expecting their first child. Her family is already a hotbed of drama, but when her mom used a racial slur during a conversation, this mom-to-be decided enough was enough. Let’s dive into the story and see how she handled this delicate situation.

A Bundle of Joy on the Way

The Perfect Partner

Family Drama Unfolds

Dad’s Shady Behavior

Mom’s Venting Session ️

The Racial Slur Drops

Alternative Phrases Offered

A Heated Debate

Ultimatum Time ⏰

No More Racial Slurs

Mom’s Reaction

Doubting Her Actions

Trust Issues Arise

The Unsettling Aftermath

Our brave mom-to-be took a stand against her own mother’s use of a racial slur, even giving her an ultimatum: work on her racist language or never meet her granddaughter. But, instead of taking the situation seriously, her mom brushed her off and hung up. Now, the expectant mother is left questioning if she was too harsh and struggling with trust issues regarding her mom’s behavior around her unborn child and partner. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this situation…

Mom-to-be stands up against racism. No grandbaby time? NTA!

NTA. Stomp out racism now to avoid future family drama.

Black commenter warns against allowing racist mother-in-law near grandchild.

Partner stands up against hidden racism, holds family accountable

Inter-racial relationship, hard-R is always racially charged. Good on you!

Protect your child from racism, not your mother’s feelings

Protecting her child from racism. NTA wins the day!

NTA lays down the law, but family member becomes defensive

Confronting racism is crucial, hiding it from your partner is unacceptable. ESH.

“Flimsy solution” to racism earns commenter NTA status

Standing up against racist family members, NTA!

Partner’s right to know about mom’s racism. NTA.

Protect your daughter and husband from your racist mother.

Support for cutting ties with a toxic family member.

NTA stands up to racist language from family. Good for you!

Mom’s racism puts daughter’s relationship with grandparents in jeopardy. ESH.

Setting boundaries against hate speech, friendship over. NTA!

Protecting bi-racial daughter from grandma’s racism. NTA

Grandpa stopped using the n-word, your mom can too

NTA comment warns of potential issues with racist grandmother-to-be.

Confronting a parent’s racism with empathy and education ‍

User expresses shock and disbelief at use of racist language.

Parenting biracial children means protecting them from racism. NTA.

Choosing not to use racial slurs is common decency.

Grandma’s racism won’t be tolerated, NTA shuts it down

OP is NTA and not her mom’s therapist. Good for standing up against racism!

NTA warns OP of potential future slip ups from racist MIL.

Setting boundaries can lead to positive change.

Heartbreaking reality of racism in family.

Protecting biracial children from racist family member. NTA

Protecting her daughter and grandbaby from toxic grandparents

Grandma’s racist language is a big deal, protect your daughter!

Protecting biracial child from grandma’s racism, NTA but communicate.

Set clear boundaries with consequences for racist language. Zero tolerance.

Support for standing up against racist language.

Mama bear sets boundaries to protect her cubs.

Supportive comment encourages reconciliation with racist family member. ❤️

Protecting partner’s dignity & baby’s feelings. Inspiring! NTA

NTA stands up against racism in family. No excuses in 2021.

NTA, protect your family from racism. Good job, OP!

Protecting her child from racism. NTA’s ultimatum sets boundaries.

Support for setting boundaries against toxic language around grandbaby.

Fighting racism even with loved ones. NTA

Setting boundaries with family can be difficult but necessary

Standing up to racist family members. Love it! NTA

Standing up to family racism: NTA and protecting loved ones

Setting boundaries with family. NTA, trust your instincts.

Dealing with a racist mother: a tough decision to make ‍♀️

Calling out subtle racism towards family with consequences.

Passionate response to exposing biracial daughter to racist grandmother.

Supportive comment on interracial relationship and anti-racism stance

Mixed woman shares personal experience with racism and family consequences.

User suggests ways to handle racist grandmother-to-be.

Protecting your child from toxic family members.

NTA. Tough love may be necessary for a racism-free family.

NTA stands with pregnant woman against racist language.

Standing up against racism in the family, NTA.

Using the N-word is never okay. Good on you for speaking up.

No tolerance for racism, even from family. NTA wins.

Engaging with a controversial comment defending the grandmother’s right to see her grandchild.

Standing up to a racist grandma. NTA wins the day!

Setting boundaries with family is important for healthy relationships.

User advises cutting out racist grandma for baby’s sake.

Cutting out bigoted family members for the baby’s safety

NTA calls out underlying racism in comment, no replies.

Standing up to racism, NTA sets family boundaries

Redditors suggest support sub for OP dealing with narcissistic mother.