We’ve all heard of expectant dads trying to squeeze in one last hurrah before their baby arrives, but this story takes it to a whole new level! A husband plans to jet off to Europe for a 10-day, all-expenses-paid trip while his wife is 33 weeks pregnant with their second child. The catch? This isn’t just any pregnancy – it’s a high-risk one. With their first child born prematurely and the wife facing potential complications, she’s left feeling uneasy about her husband’s trip. But is he really in the wrong? Let’s dive into the story…
The Euro Trip: A Dream or a Nightmare? ✈️
High-Risk Pregnancy: A Mother’s Fear
Risky Business: The Countdown Begins ⏰
Toddler Troubles: A Mother’s Burden
No Backup Plan: A Scary Reality
The Long Haul: 10 Days of Uncertainty
Emotional Milestone: A Mother’s Struggle
A Haunting Reminder: Memories Resurface
Health Concerns: Pre-eclampsia Risks
Party Time: A Questionable Destination
Inconsiderate or Misunderstood?
The Guilt Trip: A Husband’s Dilemma
A Pregnant Wife’s Dilemma: Is She Overreacting?
So, we have a husband who’s planning a 10-day European trip while his wife is 33 weeks pregnant with their second child. The wife, already dealing with a high-risk pregnancy, is left to care for their toddler without any support system in place. She’s worried about potential complications and feels her husband’s trip is inconsiderate and irresponsible. Despite expressing her concerns, the husband doesn’t consider canceling the trip. Is she overreacting, or is he putting his desires above his family’s needs? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this situation…
NTA. Husband should prioritize family over personal wants during pregnancy.
No plan for pregnant wife’s care, party more important?
Husband prioritizes work over wife’s safety during childbirth. #NTA
Doctor implied he should stay, husband still wants vacation. NTA.
Husband’s vacation vs. wife’s childbirth: NTA or AH? ♀️
Pregnant wife worries about husband’s absence. Will he return?
Protecting his pregnant wife: NTA despite potential party conflict
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Practical solution or emotional support? The debate continues…
Pregnant wife left alone with toddler, NTA comment calls out selfish husband
Husband’s absence during wife’s pregnancy: Empathy or negligence?
Expecting father criticized for not cancelling plans, needs childcare solution.
NTA comment calls out irresponsible behavior with shock and disbelief
High-risk pregnancy, no childcare, celebratory trip? Wake up, hubby!
Husband wants to leave pregnant wife alone for work trip
Pregnant wife suggests petty revenge and divorce to absent husband.
Empowering advice for a pregnant woman with a callous husband.
Red flags galore! Commenter calls out irresponsible behavior.
Pregnant wife’s health at risk, husband TA for even considering leaving
NTA prioritizes safety and emotional support for pregnant wife.
Valid concern about hospitalization and childcare in NTA situation
NTA comment suggests hiring caretaker or nanny for sick partner
Husband prioritizes partying over high-risk pregnancy and family. NTA.
Pregnant wife left alone and nervous, husband refuses to stay. NTA.
NTA suggests leaving abusive husband, no replies.
Support and understanding for pregnant wife, respecting husband’s decision.
Pregnant wife needs support but husband is being inconsiderate.
Pregnant wife left alone, commenter sympathizes, suggests packing bags
Valid reasons for not leaving pregnant wife alone. NTA
Leaving a pregnant wife alone with a toddler? Definitely not okay
Supportive comment for pregnant wife, no replies.
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Supportive comment from fellow high-risk mom, calling out husband’s behavior.
Supportive commenters agree: husband should stay with pregnant wife.
NTA. Straightforward communication is key in any relationship ✌️
NTA commenter advises pregnant woman to leave her selfish husband.
Husband should stay home to help pregnant wife with toddler
Marriage means being there for your partner in times of NEED
Pregnant woman calls husband selfish for leaving her alone.
Supportive comment from someone who understands the situation.
Prioritizing friends over family during high-risk pregnancy. Not cool, dude.
Husband’s selfishness puts pregnant wife and child at risk. NTA.
Husband chooses Bahamas over pregnant wife and toddler. NTA.
Redditors agree: NTA for prioritizing safety over work obligations.
Passionate comment calls out husband’s bad behavior.
Demanding a full-time helper: reasonable request or entitled behavior?
Leaving a high-risk pregnant wife alone with a toddler? NTA.
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NTA mom-to-be struggles with husband prioritizing frat vacation over family.
Expecting father wants to go on trip instead of caring for toddler. NTA?
NTA stands up for pregnant wife’s needs, 10-day trip too long
Husband’s choice to leave pregnant wife alone is called ‘stupid’
Pregnant woman supports wife left alone, deems husband careless
Husband’s suspicious behavior raises red flags. NTA.
Managing responsibilities and guilt: a lesson on avoiding shame.
NTA suggests husband pay for childcare or family member to help.
Supportive comment calls out husband’s behavior.
Husband’s work trip: NTA or a**hole for leaving pregnant wife?
NTA dad prioritizes wife’s high-risk pregnancy over work trip
Husband should prioritize wife’s pregnancy, NTA commenter agrees
NTA OP. Legitimate concerns for pregnant wife left alone. Narcissistic behavior.
Internet grandma offers a solution for pregnant wife’s safety
Clear communication is key in relationships.
Husband’s lack of support during high-risk pregnancy. NTA.
Passionate comment calls out husband’s selfish behavior with anger and humor.
Husband leaves pregnant wife with toddler, commenter says NTA
Husband’s irresponsibility leaves pregnant wife alone with toddler. NTA.
Pregnant wife with no support system, husband chooses trip over family. NTA
Supportive comment suggests seeking social network for pregnant wife’s well-being.
Husband’s trip or family’s safety? NTA needs to decide ASAP
Leaving a pregnant wife alone? Definitely not the hero
Canceling work for pregnant wife: NTA and colleagues should understand.
Pregnant wife left alone, commenters support her decision to stand up.
NTA commenter calls out narcissistic husband prioritizing holiday over pregnant wife
NTA commenter advises pregnant woman to prioritize her and her baby’s health.
Putting his family at risk, but is he really NTA?
Husband leaves pregnant wife alone, commenters question his actions.
NTA. Husband should stay and arrange for childcare or support.
NTA commenter suggests practical solutions for pregnant wife’s situation.
A pregnant wife left alone, is the husband the villain?
Empathetic comment offers support to pregnant wife.
Pregnant wife says no to trip, delivers at 34 weeks. NTA
Leaving a scared, pregnant wife with no support? Huge a**hole
Last Updated on February 23, 2024 by Diply Social Team
