Pregnant Wife Lays Down the Law: No Therapy, No Doctor’s Appointments!

Pregnancy is a time of joy, anticipation, and sometimes, anxiety. But what happens when one parent’s fear becomes so overwhelming, it starts to overshadow the joy of expecting a new life? Meet our expecting mother, who, after a heartbreaking loss, is now 29 weeks pregnant with a healthy baby boy. But her husband’s unaddressed grief and constant fear of another loss is causing her stress, potentially putting her high-risk pregnancy in jeopardy. She’s made a bold decision: no therapy for him, no doctor’s appointments with her. But is she right to do so?

A Second Chance at Joy

The Ghost of the Past

Healing Differently

The Shadow of Fear

The Strain of Stress

A Grim Suggestion ⚱️

A Tough Decision

The Cold War Begins ❄️

A Mother’s Fear

A Mother’s Ultimatum: Therapy or No Baby Appointments!

Our brave mom-to-be is stuck in a heart-wrenching situation. On one hand, she has a husband who’s paralyzed by fear of losing another child, and on the other, she’s carrying a healthy baby boy. His fear, however, is causing her stress, which could potentially harm their unborn child. Faced with this dilemma, she’s made a bold decision: he gets therapy, or he doesn’t accompany her to the doctor’s appointments. This tough love approach has sparked a cold war between the couple, with the husband accusing her of being unreasonable. The question is, is she being unreasonable, or is she doing what’s best for their baby? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

Take control of your health and delivery, leave him behind!

Not cool. NTA called out for lack of respect.

NTA. Anxiety has taken over his mind, he needs help

Support groups can help fathers cope with grief. Good luck!

Supportive comment encourages seeking therapy for trauma and validates feelings.

NTA. He’s terrified and it’s hurting you and the baby. Take a break and find support.

NTA. Compassionate advice for seeking therapy and understanding partner’s perspective.

NTA: Husband’s refusal of therapy puts baby at risk

Advocate for yourself and baby, but give husband space for closure.

Savage reply shuts down unreasonable response to NTA’s situation.

NTA. Therapy is crucial for his anxiety, especially with a baby

Take control of your medical event! You’re NTA!

NTA. Your request is reasonable. He needs therapy and support.

Pregnant wife sets boundaries, sparks debate. Not the a**hole.

NTA. Red flags in husband’s behavior. Seek therapy for support.

NTA, you’re right! He needs therapy!

NTA. Premature birth success story Your partner needs support ❤️

NTA: Seeking therapy after loss is crucial for healing

Protect your health and baby by setting boundaries.

NTA: Seek safety away from stress!

NTA: Husband needs help, consider involving doctor for guidance

NTA. Husband needs help. Couples counseling could be a solution.

NTA! Husband needs therapy to support you and your baby

A mother of two babies shares her perspective. ‍

Heartbreaking situation. Empathy for OP’s struggle during pregnancy.

Pregnant wife takes control: No therapy, no doctor’s appointments!

Setting boundaries for mental and emotional wellbeing. Seek support ❤️

NTA – Addressing irrational fears for the sake of fatherhood

NTA, find a healthier living situation until therapy or baby’s born

Supportive commenter encourages seeking therapy for partner’s fears and anxiety

Partner’s trauma causing strain on pregnancy. NTA. Seek therapy.

Commenter recognizes the need for therapy and supports OP’s decision.

NTA! Let’s keep it chill and stress-free, guys!

Engaging comment: Stop him going to therapy? Baby’s fine!

NTA. Prioritizing your mental health and his well-being is crucial.

NTA! Set boundaries now for a smooth delivery.

Heartbreaking loss and healing journey. Husband needs understanding and closure.

NTA: Husband’s irrational fears and insensitivity towards pregnant wife

NTA. Embrace the joy of these beautiful moments together!

Stand up for your health and ask your spouse some questions!

Engaging comment about therapy and coping with loss.

NTA: Boundaries are crucial for a healthy and stress-free pregnancy.

NTA- Therapy is crucial for him, but he’s not supportive.

NTA seeks help to support pregnant wife. Doctor’s advice needed.

NTA. Can you crash with family for a few…months? ‍♂️

NTA: Take charge of your health and set boundaries!

“NTA. His comment about you not being able to stop him makes him a major a**hole.”

NTA, prioritize your health and baby’s, but how is that allowed?

Therapy can help him be a better father. NTA!

Agreement without blame. A harmonious resolution is possible. ✌️

Protecting your mental health during pregnancy

NTA. Your husband’s fear is understandable, but not helpful.

Protect your health and baby’s. Set boundaries with unsupportive partner.

NTA: Seek therapy for the sake of your baby’s wellbeing!

NTA: Consider staying with family to avoid urn discussions.

Commenter fears becoming like the person in the article.

Supportive comment suggests therapy for grieving husband’s behavior.

NTA- Traumatized husband needs therapy before baby arrives

NTA, find a safe space away from your dude’s $hit.

Setting boundaries to protect the new baby.

NTA. Husband’s stress during pregnancy could harm you and baby. Seek therapy.

NTA. Seek support, resources, and don’t let fear rule decisions.

OP’s husband needs therapy to ensure this pregnancy goes well!

Supportive comment encourages husband to heal from trauma and seek help.

Therapy is crucial for a healthy mindset and baby!

NTA: Seeking therapy is crucial for a healthier future for all

NTA – Set boundaries for your own well-being and your baby’s

Supportive comment encourages seeking help and setting boundaries.

Realistic people don’t plan for baby’s death.

NTA, discuss with obgyn to calm his fears and communicate openly.

Engage your partner in therapy to understand your struggles. ‍

Pregnant wife stands up against controlling partner. NTA!

Confront him about his behavior and stress on your pregnancy!

NTA! Husband should support you, even with therapy.

Insisting on therapy for husband’s sake and baby’s well-being.

NTA: Husband’s refusal to support wife’s health is endangering family

NTA. Your concerns are valid. Therapy can help your husband.

Spouse not supportive of pregnancy, causing stress for mother and baby.

ESH: Wife prioritizes herself and baby, but husband needs support.

NTA. Set boundaries with your partner for a stress-free pregnancy!

NTA. Calmly communicate your concerns and offer support to husband.

Commenter suggests using pregnancy complications to encourage therapy attendance.

NTA. You are right at all accounts.

NTA, husband needs reality check. Ultimatum: therapy or exclusion.

NTA, but let’s focus on helping your husband heal

NTA – Husband’s fear of loss may be affecting his decisions.

NTA. Therapy needed. Inappropriate response to doctor’s appointment.

Demanding therapy for husband’s distressing behavior during pregnancy. NTA!

Valid boundary set, teamwork is key. NTA if he refuses.

Supportive comment calls out unsupportive partner during pregnancy.

NTA. Supportive comment on husband’s struggles and pregnancy after loss.

Demanding therapy for husband’s behavior to ensure healthy family bond!