Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a doozy of a dilemma on our hands. Meet our expectant couple: the pregnant wife who’s sworn off all things fun (aka booze and weed) , and the hardworking hubby who’s been dreaming of a well-deserved holiday abroad . But there’s a catch! Wifey says if she can’t indulge, neither can he! ♀️ Is hubby an a-hole for putting his foot down and refusing to fund the trip? Let’s dive in and find out! ️♀️
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AITA for Wanting to Enjoy My Hard-Earned Holiday?

Pregnancy Problems: No Booze, No Bliss for Hubby?
Well, well, well… looks like our expectant couple is in quite the pickle! The pregnant wife has laid down the law: no drinking for anyone, not even a cheeky beer with dinner! Poor hubby, who’s been busting his a** at work to save up for a dream holiday, feels like his relaxation is being ruined. He’s put his foot down and said no trip if he can’t enjoy a few drinks. The internet is abuzz with opinions on this one! ️ Some say the wife is being unreasonable, while others think hubby should suck it up and support his pregnant partner. What do you think? Let’s see what the masses have to say about this boozy brouhaha!
Recovering alcoholic defends husband’s right to drink on vacation. NTA!

Pregnant woman defends husband against entitlement accusations.

Encouraging comment to enjoy vacation without substances.

Husband wants to drink on vacation, but pregnant wife needs rest

NTA for refusing to give up drinking on vacation

Financially controlling spouse puts winning over pregnant wife’s needs. YTA

Partner’s stress and drinking habits discussed in NAH comment.

Compromise and relaxation are key, substance reliance is problematic.

Debate over drinking on vacation with pregnant wife. YTA cancels trip.

Pregnancy is hard and YTA for not being supportive

Having one beer on vacation is reasonable. NTA

Vacation drinking over wife time? YTA, sober up dude

Pregnancy is tough, husband should support wife – YTA slightly

Curious about wife’s pregnancy and possible concerns. Reminder on marriage.

A hard truth about pregnancy and childbirth. ♂️

Grow up and toast mocktails with your wife on vacation.

Husband’s drinking on vacation sparks ESH debate.

Husband throws tantrum over no alcohol on vacation. YTA

Wife asks husband to abstain from alcohol, but he won’t. YTA.

Depriving babymoon over alcohol? YTA! Respect sobriety deal, not superiority.

Sacrificing alcohol for pregnant wife is reasonable, consider sober vacation ♀️

A comment calling out the husband’s contradicting behavior and priorities.

Supportive husband defends his right to enjoy vacation sans alcohol.

Pregnant wife forbids drinking on vacation: Everyone sucks here (ESH) ♀️⚠️

Pregnant wife forbids drinking on vacation, husband cancels whole trip

Communicate with your wife and find a compromise

A thoughtful response suggesting reasons for the wife’s request.

“Jealousy is understandable, but compromise is key”

A commenter calls out a husband for prioritizing alcohol over his pregnant wife’s needs.

User calls out drinking problem in response to vacation conflict.

Alcohol on vacation: weird demand or necessary unwind?

Finding a compromise for a sober babymoon trip
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Husband jokes about drinking for two on Napa trip

Vacation woes: ESH, she’s controlling, he’s unwilling to compromise. ♂️

Husband’s financial punishment over wife’s drinking rule deemed unfair. ♂️

Should pregnant women be allowed to drink alcohol?

Discussion on husband’s responsibility during pregnancy and alcohol consumption.
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Autonomy matters. Seek communication to understand her concerns

Planning to drink? Consider wife’s pregnancy and trip activities

Pregnant wife asks husband not to drink, he cancels vacation. YTA

Can’t enjoy vacation without drinking? Both are immature

Confused commenter questions husband’s motives for drinking on vacation

Support your pregnant wife and don’t be a jerk about it.

Drug use on vacation debated in comment section

NTA but wife is pregnant, she needs you sober for emergencies.

Postpone vacation? NTA’s advice for pregnant wife and husband.

Compromise is key in a healthy relationship

Red flag for commenter if partner prioritizes alcohol over vacation

Pregnant wife forbids husband from drinking on vacation – Commenter says YTA

Pregnancy concerns over drinking on vacation spark debate.

Husband’s alcohol ban on vacation, NTA for canceling trip.

Husband stands up for his bodily autonomy in relationship

Supporting your pregnant partner is crucial. ESH.

Pregnant wife forbids drinking on vacation, husband cancels trip. YTA?

Compromise and enjoy your vacation without getting drunk.

Being sober around someone who isn’t is often a drag

Discussion on pregnant wife’s substance use and fairness in relationship.

Pregnant wife sacrifices more, YTA for not skipping drinks

Pregnant wife asks husband not to drink, seeks empathy. Understandable.

Redditors call out YTA for insensitivity towards pregnant wife

Soft NTA but why not give up drinking for your pregnant wife

Transactional approach to problems in relationships is not healthy.

Advice on handling a pregnant wife’s request.

User calls out husband for prioritizing drinking over pregnant wife

NTA but empathy goes a long way during pregnancy ♂️

Pregnant wife forbids husband from drinking on vacay – YTA or NAH?

Husband breaks pact with pregnant wife over vacation drinking, deemed YTA

ESH – Good practice to cut down on drinking, but ultimatums aren’t great.

Holiday drama: Husband and wife disagree on drinking limits. ESH.

Pregnant wife asks husband not to drink, YTA disagrees ♂️

Pregnant wife asks husband to abstain from drinking, ESH in comments

Pregnant wife asks husband to sacrifice drinking on vacation. Is she TA?

Could the husband’s behavior be the reason for the wife’s request?

A pregnant woman shares how she coped with her husband’s drinking

Is the husband TA or is the wife being controlling?

Husband drinks on vacation while pregnant wife abstains – YTA

Planning a babymoon? Consider both parties’ enjoyment and safety.

Engaging in parenthood begins now, not at birth. YTA

Vacation cancelled over drinks? YTA according to commenter.

Mutual respect is key in a relationship, especially during pregnancy

Married couple dying on hills that don’t make sense ♂️
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Pregnant wife forbids husband from drinking on vacation. NTA says commenter

Wife forbids drinking on vacation, NTA decides not to go. ♂️

ESH. Wife can’t decide for you, but consider her pregnancy.

Plan a sober vacation now, enjoy it fully later

Partner shouldn’t dictate actions, but consider pregnant wife’s concerns.
