Picture this: you’re 38 weeks and 2 days into a pregnancy, on the brink of welcoming baby number four into the world. Your partner, however, seems to have a different agenda – one that involves work buddies, nightly escapades, and weekend parties . When a heart-to-heart turns into a showdown, and your plea for companionship is met with a ‘get your own friends,’ what do you do? Our protagonist, a mom on the edge of her patience, made a decision that’s sparked a fiery debate. Let’s dive into this drama-filled tale of pregnancy, priorities, and partying.
The Countdown Begins

Where’s Hubby?

A Typical Day in Hubby’s Life

Evening Escapades

Weekend Wanderings

A Lone Plea

Dismissed Desires

Another Night, Another Drink

Party Plans Over Family

A Calm Response

The Ultimatum

Hubby’s Hissy Fit

A Sobering Thought

No Drunk Dads in the Delivery Room

The Final Verdict?

The Internet Weighs In: Party Dad vs. Pregnant Mom Showdown
In a tale as old as time, or at least as old as the concept of ‘boys’ nights,’ our future mom laid down the law, sparking a debate that’s as heated as her hubby’s nightlife. With her partner choosing hops over hospital runs, she’s drawn a line in the sand. But is she the unsung hero of expecting mothers everywhere, or is she stirring the pot unnecessarily? As the internet’s unofficial jury deliberates, one thing’s for sure: this isn’t just about a night out; it’s about priorities, partnership, and the power of a well-timed ultimatum. Grab your popcorn (or pacifiers) as we dive into the top takes from the web’s wisest commentators.
NTA. Single mom, but lucky to have ex’s support and family ❤️

“NTA. This guy sounds like a chode. I hope things get better because this doesn’t sound healthy at all.”

Suspicion of cheating due to recent suspicious behavior and time away
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NTA. Husband neglects kids and wife, divorce may be necessary.

NTA. Formulate an exit plan. You deserve better.

NTA, seeking validation for concerns about party-prone hubby’s absence

Gaslighting spouse prioritizes friends over family. Communication breakdown persists.

“NTA: Shouldn’t your spouse be your best friend? “

NTA. Safe transportation to the hospital during labor is crucial!

Party-prone hubby neglects pregnant wife, causing tension and confusion.

NTA, but this relationship may not survive

NTA for setting boundaries with absent party-prone hubby.

Suspicion of infidelity: Is something really going on here?

NTA. Concerned about unsupportive husband during labor. Support system needed.

NTA. Husband is unreliable and needs a wake-up call

Married 2 years, he’s changed. Is he self-centered or uninvolved?

NTA. Husband prioritizes friends over family, lacks care and respect.

Straight women fed up with boundary-crossing partners. ♀️

Reevaluate your marriage, get counseling, or consider a divorce
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NTA, but why have another child with this disrespectful man?
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Parenting woes: Hubby’s partying leaves mom with all responsibilities

NTA. Time for counseling or divorce lawyer.

Divorce the party-prone hubby for a partner who’s invested.
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NTA. Relationship issues and childcare concerns.

NTA – Pregnant woman needs sober support, not partying husband.
