Imagine being a manager at a customer service center, already understaffed and overwhelmed. One of your employees, Cindy, suffers a tragic miscarriage and takes an extended leave. But when you’re instructed to ask her to return, she refuses, leaving you in a tough spot. What would you do?
The Understaffed Department

Cindy’s Tragic Loss

Extended Leave ⏰

Time to Return?

Corporate’s Response

A Tough Conversation ️

Cindy’s New Position

Breaking the News

Accusations Fly

Cindy’s Response

Edit: Reduced Hours Offer

Caught in the Crossfire: Manager’s Dilemma
The manager, already struggling with an understaffed department, is forced to make a difficult decision when Cindy refuses to return to work after her miscarriage. Despite fighting for her and offering reduced hours, the manager is accused of being selfish and uncaring. With emotions running high and the department’s workload increasing, the manager is left questioning if they did the right thing. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation…
NTA. Employee’s grief is understandable but business must go on.

Employee’s 12-week leave is fair. NTA. Replies question empathy.

Manager saves employee’s job after pregnancy loss, faces backlash.

NTA employee milking 6-week miscarriage, needs therapy, accused boss of laziness.

Employee’s grief is valid, but work can’t be on hold forever

Compassionate manager struggles with workload and corporate decisions

12 weeks is generous, but therapy may be needed

Compassionate manager not at fault for company’s decision. #NTA

Manager faced tough decision to replace grieving employee

NTA. Logical decision made, but empathy still needed.
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Empathy is key: NTA for supporting grieving employee

HR employee shares perspective on balancing compassion and business priorities.

Compassionate yet firm response to miscarriage leave request

Grateful or ungrateful? NTA manager faces employee’s grief

Supportive comment and practical advice for a grieving employee

NTA for needing time off after pregnancy loss

Manager questioned for not fighting harder to keep grieving employee.

Manager tries to accommodate grieving employee, but can’t please everyone

Employee on leave after pregnancy loss gets replaced, NTA.

Employee given fair time, needs to reapply after therapy

Balancing empathy and team dynamics in difficult situations

Bosses made the call, commenter says NTA

Commenter sympathizes with manager’s decision, acknowledges grief’s impact.

Employee’s 6-week pregnancy doesn’t warrant 12 weeks off? NTA

Prioritizing work over personal issues: NTA wins the day

Employee’s miscarriage grief criticized, maternity leave compared.

Insensitive comment about pregnancy loss and advice for the grieving.

Compassionate manager praised for handling grieving employee with empathy ❤️

NAH. Manager did their best to accommodate grieving employee.

Legal protections and HR support for grieving employee discussed

Employee not entitled to hold job forever after pregnancy loss

Employee’s grief is understandable, but company can’t accommodate indefinitely.

Compassionate boss praised for supporting grieving employee during pregnancy loss

Insensitive comment on employee’s miscarriage and job loss
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Short and sweet: NTA tells it like it is
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Manager explains why replacing grieving employee was necessary

Employee’s mental health insurance coverage questioned after pregnancy loss.

Employee shares personal experience with miscarriage and work accommodations. NTA.

Manager praised for handling grieving employee’s situation with empathy.

Employee’s early miscarriage deemed common, NTA for replacing her.

Compassionate reply receives no further comments

Compassionate boss allows time to grieve, but life moves on.

Commenter predicts job loss for grieving employee.

Compassionate response to grieving employee’s extended leave. ❤️
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Pregnant woman questions 12 weeks leave for 7 week loss

Call out the liar and report her to HR

Resilience or privilege? Debate on grieving employee’s choice.

Employee’s grief exploited by manager for departmental change.

Employee not at fault, empathetic manager earns praise

Manager shows empathy towards grieving employee, considers sending note

Balancing compassion and business is tough

Commenter believes employee is not at fault

Manager praised for standing up for grieving employee

Employee’s grief is understandable, but expecting job to wait is unrealistic

Supportive comment section for grieving employee.

Employee’s loss not manager’s fault, NTA.

Employee suggests FMLA for future reference, manager did nothing wrong

Employee’s lack of consideration for business after pregnancy loss.

Balancing business and friendship can be tough. NTA in this case
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NTA comment suggests filing HR complaint for better protocol
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Compassionate manager faces backlash for doing the right thing

NTA! Commenter outraged at length of employee’s absence.

Heartless comment receives zero support

Employee shares heartbreaking experience of loss and lack of support.

Employee’s grief may be more about crushed dreams than loss.

NTA. Manager’s generosity not appreciated by grieving employee.

Manager praised for supporting grieving employee, NTA

Manager praised for supporting grieving employee during pregnancy loss.

Employee shares experience of unfair leave policy after pregnancy loss.

Balancing empathy and work responsibilities in tough situations.
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Manager faces backlash for replacing grieving employee. NTA.

Compassionate manager receives praise for handling grieving employee situation ❤️

Encouraging response to grieving employee, advocating for professional help ❤️

Last Updated on June 18, 2023 by Diply Social Team