We’ve all had days when we felt like the universe was against us, right? But imagine this: you’ve just had a grueling oral surgery, you’re feeling nauseous and dizzy, and all you want is to get home and rest. But your only ride home, your dad, decides to take a detour to the brewery for some beers. What would you do? Let’s dive into this tale of post-surgery drama and see how one woman navigated this emotionally charged situation.
The Uncomfortable Ride

An Unwanted Chauffeur

The Brewing Tension ⏳

The Unexpected Detour

The Brewing Conflict vs

The Accusations Fly ️

The Offer and Outrage

The Personal Attacks

The Final Straw ♀️

The Long Walk Home ♀️

The Aftermath

The Guilt Trip

A Detour to Controversy: Who’s in the Wrong?
So there you have it, folks. A simple request for a ride home from the hospital turns into a full-blown emotional showdown. Our heroine, fresh out of surgery and feeling sick, finds herself in a brewing conflict with her father. His detour to the brewery sparks a heated debate, personal attacks, and ultimately, a long walk home for our post-surgery patient. Was she in the wrong for asking to be dropped home first? Or should her father have prioritized her wellbeing over his desire for a cold beer? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this brewing controversy…
NTA. Father’s abusive behavior after surgery is unforgivable

Father’s brewery detour after surgery sparks controversy

Father’s selfish behavior after surgery sparks outrage and estrangement

NTA. Commenter sympathizes with OP’s experience and expresses concern for their safety.

Final nail in the coffin. Time to go no contact. NTA

NTA, cut ties with sperm donor.

Supportive comment, wishing the commenter a better future without him.

NTA: Dad’s cruel comment sparks outrage. Hope you recover soon!

Outrageous! Father’s detour sparks controversy. Absolutely NTA

NTA. Dad’s lack of empathy after surgery causes family tension

Heartbreaking comment about a father’s worthiness to be a parent

NTA. Dad’s drunk driving plan? Totally messed up!

NTA: Dad’s absence during surgery sparks controversy and outrage.
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Heartbreaking story of abuse from a vulnerable person’s own father

A**hole dad sparks controversy, wishing OP a speedy recovery

A shocking reaction to a controversial situation. NTA

Toxic father: NTA, cut contact.

Dad offers to drive next time, sympathizes with OP

NTA, your dad sucks

A supportive comment about a father’s actions sparks controversy

NTA. Toxic relationship, consider going no contact. Support system failure

Toxic dad drama: You’re NTA, hope you’re recovering well

Heartbreaking: A Father’s Betrayal Leaves a Lasting Impact

Is Dad’s drinking the real issue here?

Asking for help from a difficult father. Expand friendships instead!

Overcoming insecurities and finding true friendship.

NTA- Father’s detour sparks controversy. Not fun all day?

NTA. Revenge fantasies fuel the comment section.

NTA: Your dad’s treatment is awful. Seek therapy and move on

Cut ties with your toxic dad and focus on self-care
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Supportive comment and advice for dealing with alcoholic father.

NTA. Your dad is, though

Post-surgery mishaps: A wild ride with mom and karma

Father’s controversial detour sparks drama. NTA or ITA?
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Your dad is a f**king a**hole! Drama unfolds…

NTA OP, find people who care about you

Cutting off a manipulative and abusive father after surgery drama

♂️ NTA. Sorry your dad’s a massive a**hole.

Omg, your dad is awful! You’re definitely NTA!

A sympathetic commenter calls out a problematic dad.

NTA. Father drama sparks controversy

Heartbreaking: Father’s Betrayal Leaves Child Traumatized

Heartbreaking comment calls out the OP’s questionable actions

Taking care of a sedated loved one gone wrong

Navigating family drama with a narcissistic parent.
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Dad’s detour for surgery sparks controversy, but commenter’s got a story

Cutting contact: A father’s controversial post-surgery detour

Cut ties with abusive father, prioritize your own well-being.

A shocking revelation: Dad’s actions spark controversy. NTA.

NTA. Your dad’s alcoholism creates an unpleasable, angry dynamic. Seek support.

Stand your ground and don’t let your awful father control you

Agreeing with everyone, commenter cuts off horrible father forever. ✂️

Heartfelt support for a traumatic experience, offering helpful advice

Father’s selfishness causes rift, leaving OP feeling unimportant.

Dad’s drinking and driving sparks heated debate.

Supportive comment: You’re not the a**hole, keep your head up!

Heartbreaking betrayal by a parent, cut ties for self-care

NTA, taking someone home after surgery is common decency

Surgery aftermath: No Uber, but cabulance could’ve saved the day!

Father’s lack of support after surgery sparks controversy

Yikes! The commenter shares their personal experience and criticizes the dad’s irresponsibility.

Avoiding confrontation pays off. Not the a**hole!

Unforgivable act sparks controversy. Strict no contact. NTA at all.

Cutting ties with a terrible father.

Cutting out toxic family: NTA deserves better

Heartbreaking betrayal by father, find solace in cutting ties

NTA, but seriously, what the f**k is going on here?

A father’s controversial actions leave loved ones questioning his love

NTA. Sympathy for the OP and criticism of the father’s actions.

Sharing the story with friends can lead to helpful support

Heartbreaking. Seek therapy and cut out toxic, abusive father

Heartbreaking story of a terrible father, but you deserve better

Strained father-child relationship sparks curiosity. Not the a**hole.

Heartbreaking: A Father’s Betrayal After Child’s Surgery

“Your dad sounds like a drunk, and my heart hurts for you. You deserve better.”

♂️ NTA. Dad’s a d**k. Sorry for your surgery drama.

Dad’s fail: Complaints and no ride home after surgery

Find support in r/raisedbynarcissists. NTA. Choose your family

OP’s dad fails to fulfill responsibility, jeopardizes recovery process.

Cut him off! Your safety and well-being come first.
