We’ve all seen it – the parent who’s more interested in their phone than watching their child at the pool. But what happens when that negligence potentially endangers a child’s life? In this tale of poolside drama, a young lifeguard (18f) is forced to make a tough call when a mother refuses to supervise her nonverbal, autistic son in the deep end. ♂️
Meet the Characters: Lifeguard, Mom, and the Little Swimmer ♂️

The Deep End Dilemma

A Lifeguard’s Nightmare

Mom’s Unyielding Stance

Taking Matters to the Higher-ups ♂️

When the Cops Get Involved

The Lifeguard’s Defense ️

The Aftermath: Neighborhood Outrage ️

The Final Standoff

A Lifeguard’s Dilemma: Safety vs. Accusations of Discrimination ♂️
This isn’t your typical day at the pool. When a mother’s negligence leads to a lifeguard rescuing her nonverbal, autistic son from the deep end – twice – the lifeguard takes action. But when the mother refuses to comply with safety rules, the situation escalates, leading to the cops being called and a community uproar. Accusations of ableism and racism fly, leaving our young lifeguard in a moral quandary. Is it discrimination or just common sense safety? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this splashy showdown.
Mom’s negligence sparks outrage, but lifeguard stands by their actions

NTA lifeguard warns of serious drowning risks, community shares experiences

NTA. Mom sounds pretty neglectful.

NTA. Lifeguards aren’t babysitters, parents should watch their own kids

Traumatic childhood near-drowning incident sparks support for lifeguard.

“Lifeguard’s job is to supervise EVERYBODY, not specific people”

NTA for preventing a 4-year-old boy from drowning

Outrageous negligence! Mom accuses lifeguard of racism and ableism

Lifeguard hailed as hero for keeping everyone safe!

NTA – Negligent mom sparks outrage for refusing to supervise child

Mom accuses lifeguard of racism and neglect, community outraged

NTA: Irresponsible mom sparks outrage and blames lifeguard

NTA. Pool ≠ day care.

Dark suspicions arise about negligent mom’s intentions
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Negligent mom ignores pool rules, lifeguard calls cops

Outrage over negligent mom letting 4-year-old swim unsupervised

NTA. CPS should get involved. Involving them is a better solution to address potential issues.

Outrage as mom allows son to drown CPS needed!

Negligent mom sparks outrage, calls for social services intervention
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Lifeguard saves drowning kids, entitled parents refuse to take responsibility

Outrage over mom endangering child & using disability as excuse

Supportive commenter suggests calling CPS to address negligence
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Lifeguard’s heroic actions spark community outrage against negligent mother
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NTA. Parent ignored rules, endangering others. Safety first at the pool.

NTA, she’s an idiot. Sparks community outrage.

Lifeguard saves the day and becomes community hero!

Mom accused of negligence, community calls for safety signs
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“NTA. Lifeguard’s duty is to observe and enforce pool rules.”
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Community outraged as lifeguard fails to ban negligent mom

Safety first! NTA reminds us of the importance of supervision

Shady motives? You’re NTA, but something seems fishy here…

Outrage over negligent mom at the pool sparks heated debate

“NTA. Lifeguard’s authority should be respected, but unfair situation.”

“NTA, she needs to supervise her child appropriately.”

Hero lifeguard saves black and disabled child, sparks community support!

NTA. Safety first!
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“NTA. Former daycare worker. Pool days terrified me. Drowning is scary! You did your job.”

Outraged commenter urges child services intervention for neglectful mom

Outrage over negligent mom at the pool

NTA big time! Pool manager stands ground against negligent mom

Mom’s negligence sparks outrage, but is it really racism?
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Outrage as negligent mom fails to watch disabled 4-year-old ♀️

Mom criticized for not having child wear life jacket ♀️

NTA calls out mom for playing the race card.

Harry Potter fans demand a safe year at Hogwarts!

NTA. Safety rules apply to everyone, regardless of race or ability.

Lifeguard creates record of negligent mom ignoring her child

Wild stories from a former lifeguard: unattended kids, alcohol, and crack
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NTA. Negligent mom shifts blame, sparks community outrage. ♂️

NTA! Mom neglects child at pool, risking dry drowning. Good job reporting!

♂️ Australian lifeguard enforces strict pool rules, sparks community outrage

NTA. You saved the kid twice. Realistic, not ableist or racist.

“NTA: Autistic child needs supervision. Negligent mom sparks community outrage.”

Lifeguard’s tough call on negligent mom sparks heated cultural debate

Implement clear rules to prevent accusations of favoritism and discrimination

Lifeguard saves child, mom neglects, sparks community outrage!

NTA. Lifeguard’s concern for child’s safety sparks community outrage

Parent expresses concern for child’s safety in the pool
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Tragic drowning incident sparks discussion on water safety

NTA- Safety first! ♂️ It’s important to understand limitations and provide support.

Community supports mom in poolside drama.
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Lifeguard saves the day! NTA for enforcing pool safety rules
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Parent of non-verbal autistic kids criticizes negligent mom at pool ♂️

Lifeguard’s frustration with negligent parents at the pool
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NTA. Negligent mom puts child at risk, lifeguard takes action

NTA: Prioritizing safety over race amidst protests and unrest

Lifeguard’s duty questioned: Should they focus on one child?
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Suggesting life jacket or arm floats, NTA (not the a**hole)

“NTA. Lifeguards are there to help anyone in distress “

Parent shares strict pool safety measures, expresses disbelief at negligence

Engaging comment: Parenting with autism, swimming together creates lasting memories

NTA. Lifeguard shows restraint, warns mom of potential consequences
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Community outraged as lifeguard calls cops on negligent mom

Outrage over lifeguard’s response to negligent parenting

“NTA. Negligent mom brings non-swimmers to pool, ignores rules. “
