Imagine this: a lovely hotel, a sparkling pool under the stars, and a casual after-work hangout that suddenly spirals into a corporate controversy. What started as a simple dip of the feet and a few drinks with colleagues turned into an HR investigation that no one saw coming. When personal style clashes with professional boundaries, things get complicated. Dive into this poolside drama where piercings, perceptions, and professionalism collide. ♀️ ✨
A Splashy Start ♀️

Poolside Chill Turns Thrill

Piercing Gaze

Curiosity and Props

Pain Thresholds and Props

The Plot Thickens

HR Whodunnit? ️♀️

The Fallout

Clapback with Class

Diving Deep into the Drama
In the end, what seemed like a harmless evening by the pool opened up a can of workplace worms that nobody was ready for. From HR investigations to team reshuffles, the ripples of this incident were felt far and wide. But let’s not forget the silver lining: a fierce defense of personal expression and a lesson in navigating the murky waters of professional decorum. Now, as the dust settles, we’re left pondering – where do we draw the line between personal freedom and professional boundaries? ♀️ ✨ Let’s dive into the sea of opinions and see what the waves bring in!
NTA – Coworker escalates situation, needs to grow up

Did Greg and Phil cross a line or was Jill overreacting?

Navigating HR and avoiding lawsuits: a delicate situation for OP

NTA: Jill wants to control your appearance at work

NTA. Coworkers started discussion, report her for what she said

OP’s inappropriate behavior sparks workplace drama and potential retaliation charge

“ESH. Inappropriate convo leads to retaliation, potential legal trouble “

Modest suit or inappropriate bottoms? The debate over visible piercings
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“YTA for allowing an inappropriate conversation at a work event.”

“Inappropriate questions at work? Never-ending nightmare. “

“YTA – You should’ve apologized and kept her on the team”

Uncomfortable coworker outing: YTA for discussing intimate piercings
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Confusion at the poolside: A revealing swim suit mystery

“YTA. Keep it professional, even outside of work. “

“YTA – I’m surprised by the responses here, honestly. I would be uncomfortable if I was a woman on a work trip where two male coworkers suddenly started inquiring about another woman’s nipples. I get that different people have different thresholds for what is and isn’t okay, but it’s not *weird* for someone to be bothered by that, and it’s a little shitty to take this Cool Girl posture that shames her for having boundaries with coworkers. You’re the team lead! Take a little responsibility, for goodness’ sake. But more importantly, it does seem like her being moved off the team was retaliation, and she has every right to be bothered by that. I just don’t understand the comments criticizing her for this.”
“Yeah, I feel like a lot of people here are living in some alternate reality. “OMG, look at this outrageously prudish woman! She…doesn’t want to hear about her team leader’s pierced clitoral hood while on a business trip!”
Objecting to hearing about a co-worker’s genitals is always okay, and I really question the ethics of anyone who thinks otherwise.”
HR agreed with her, discussing genitals with coworkers is inappropriate

“YTA. Inappropriate piercings talk at work trip. Take them out!”

Setting boundaries at work: NTA, but Jill felt uncomfortable ♀️

Did OP accidentally reveal their piercing? YTA according to comment.

NTA: HR needs to mind their own business

Reddit user contemplates asking their ladyboss about her tiddies

Boss engages in inappropriate conversation, making employee uncomfortable and worsening environment. YTA

“YTA for not shutting down the piercing convo at the event”
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