Ever had a friend who seems to be controlled by their roommate? Well, imagine planning a picturesque snowy engagement photoshoot for that friend, only to have it cancelled at the last minute because of that very roommate. ❄️ This is the frosty situation one hobbyist photographer found themselves in, sparking a heated debate that’s got everyone talking. So, let’s dive into this icy tale of friendship, control, and missed opportunities…
A Passionate Photographer’s Predicament

A Snowy Proposal

Planning for the Perfect Picture

A Roommate’s Rigid Rules

Living under a Lunatic’s Laws

A Groom’s Guilty Conscience

A Frosty Morning Surprise

A Photographer’s Fury

A Cold Response

A Missed Opportunity

A Snowy Shoot Melts into a Heated Argument
In a frosty turn of events, a planned snowy engagement photoshoot was cancelled last minute due to a groom’s fear of angering his overly controlling roommate. The photographer, a friend of the couple, was left in the cold, having prepared for the shoot only to have it cancelled two hours before. The photographer’s icy response has sparked a fiery debate, with many suggesting the couple needs to break free from the roommate’s icy grip. Let’s see how the internet has reacted to this chilling tale of friendship, control, and missed opportunities…
️ Prepare for a blizzard of NTA comments. The groom’s roommate’s behavior is scary and controlling.

NTA: Photographer friend upset over cancelled free engagement shoot.

Roommate’s jealousy or religious zealotry? NTA, but drama ensues.

Roommate’s obsession and anger issues: Friends need to intervene. NTA

NTA offers to apply a stupidity tax for cancelled shoot

“NTA – Don’t reschedule, let someone else deal with their weird a** situation. Ship has sailed. “

NTA. Generous gift turned rude when they blew you off.

NTA. Friends prioritize roommate over engagement shoot. Find someone else.

Engaging comment and fiery response, but let’s keep it civil

Roommate’s struggle with faith and sexuality leads to disturbing behavior.

Setting up the perfect shoot, but blamed for an obnoxious roommate? NTA

NTA. Controlling roommate ruins engagement shoot, you deserve better!

NTA. Friends were inconsiderate, but you were a bit blunt

NAH, except for the roommate. Friend stuck in abusive relationship.

NTA. Don’t waste your time on people who don’t appreciate you.
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Roommate’s lack of friends is a real head-scratcher

NTA, they disrespected you by cancelling last minute.

Engaging comment: NTA. Groom is f**king the roommate.

NTA. Roommate’s control freak behavior ruins friendships and engagement shoot.

Groom’s behavior raises suspicions about roommate’s involvement. ️♂️

NTA for wanting compensation and a contract for your services!

Supportive comment encourages OP to stand their ground. ✨

Obsessive roommate causes chaos, commenter says NTA (Not the a**hole)

Roommate’s behavior deserves a punch in the face and eviction

NTA: Roommate’s control and violence jeopardizes their friendships.

Roommate drama: NTA, groom needs to stand up for himself ♂️

NTA: Last-minute cancellation without communication is definitely frustrating!

NTA. Toxic roommate jeopardizes relationship.

Toxic roommate ruins groom’s life, intervention needed ASAP!

NTA. Apologize for the explosion, but emphasize your regret and sadness.
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Fiance’s shady roommate raises red flags for photographer friend. NTA

Commenter shares frustration with pushy religious individuals.

Plot twist: room-mate and groom are actually lovers!

“Prepping for a photoshoot is hard work! Roommate drama ensues. “

NTA: Roommate’s extreme reaction may stem from hidden attraction

Commenter questions legitimacy of crazy roommate situation, suggests funny rescue mission for engagement shoot.

NTA. No respect for you, no work for them. ♂️

Blizzard of a**holes! NTA for not staying in daft scenario.

NTA, but a signed contract could have saved the day!

NTA. Reddit surprises with weird roommate situation. Fiancé needs escape!

Time to find a new photographer!

Reddit user shocked by messed up situation, declares NTA

NTA. Detailed planning and last-minute cancellation is incredibly annoying and inconsiderate

NTA: Friend’s fiancee needs help, angry meltdown over sex lives.

NTA: They owe a cancellation fee. Groom needs to grow up.

NTA: Photographer friend deals with rude couple and wedding madness.

NTA, friends fueling drama. Live your life, ignore their negativity. ✌️

NTA: Charge them when they reschedule. No more freebies!

NTA for cancelling shoot; hope they pay big bucks for it!

Surprising comment questions age and marriage of 12-year-olds.

Groom accused of secret love for roommate sparks controversy.

Roommate’s love triangle drama: NTA. ♀️

Groom’s roommate drama: NTA, time to grow up and act!
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NTA suspects roommate has ulterior motive for cancelling engagement shoot

Photographer vents frustrations about disrespectful friends and family.

NTA. Roommate is toxic and deserves to be reported!

NTA: Roommate drama ruins engagement shoot. Charge them next time! ✨

NTA, your advice was fine, but will it actually work?
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NTA. Boundaries are important. Don’t let others devalue your work.

NTA, charge them for wasted time. Stand up against control.

Is the groom ready for marriage if he can’t set boundaries?

NTA. Bride’s future looks bleak with spineless groom and abusive roommate.

NTA for canceled shoot, but demanding roommate change is over line

No regrets! You’re definitely not the a**hole.

NTA. Photographer friend’s weird roommate and wasted time.

NTA: Roommate ruins engagement shoot, mature adults don’t behave like this

NTA- Healthy reaction to unhealthy situation. Protect yourself and groom.

NTA cancels snowy shoot, but roommate’s behavior escalates to stalking

NTA: Friend’s ruined engagement shoot, psycho roommate, and closet gay?

Commenter compares situation to ‘Single White Female’ with skeevy vibe.

NTA: Communication is key in any professional relationship.

NTA. Bride’s reconsidering marriage due to roommate’s interference.

Groom’s concern about roommate threatens marriage. Ultimatum time!
