We all love a good party, right? But what happens when the guest list becomes a battlefield? This is the story of a group of friends, a sober comrade, and a party that turned into an unexpected drama. A tale of friendship, sobriety, and the thin line between sensitivity and responsibility. Let’s dive into the story, shall we?
A Friend’s Journey to Sobriety

The Sober Squad Expands

A Party Crasher’s Tale

The Aftermath and a Tough Decision ️

The Camping Trip Conundrum ⛺

The Uncomfortable ‘No’ and the Silent Aftermath

The Dilemma: Inclusive or Prudent?

The Party Planner’s Plight: A Tale of Friendship, Sobriety and Responsibility
In a world where parties are all about letting loose, what happens when sobriety enters the mix? This story revolves around a group of friends, a sober member, and a party that spiraled into chaos. From a friend’s journey to sobriety to the expansion of the sober squad, the tale takes a dramatic turn when a new member disrupts a party. The aftermath leaves our party planner in a dilemma: to be inclusive or prudent? As the internet buzzes with opinions, let’s delve into the top responses to this intriguing situation…
NTA, but could have worded response better.
Uninviting a belligerent guest
“NTA why on earth does he ‘have’ to bring this guy just because he’s crashing with him? Does he not remember the previous behavior? You aren’t obligated to invite anyone to your event”

Friend brings an a**hole to party, demands inclusion. NTA.

NTA. Setting boundaries and prioritizing your own well-being

Exclusion justified: Judgy behavior and destruction led to exclusion.

Sober friend invites roommate to party, regrets it immediately
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Sober friend brings struggling friend to party, causing tension

NTA – Supporting a sober friend, seeking understanding from others

NTA. Set boundaries with your sober friend for a drama-free celebration

Responsible friend sets boundaries while still enjoying camping

NTA. Don’t invite the liability, keep the party safe

NTA. You invited your friend and that’s what matters.

NTA: Your sober friend needs to find new friends

Concern for friend’s boundaries with disaster guy

NTA. You’re a true friend, looking out for his well-being.

“NTA. Your friend insists on inviting ‘Total Disaster Guy’ ♂️”
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NTA – Setting boundaries and kicking out bad behavior

Setting boundaries with friends and avoiding disaster

NTA. Inclusive party planning saves friendships

NTA. Support your friend and help him separate from the addict

Cutting out toxic friends: NTA!

Explaining sobriety to friends: NTA, but communication is key!

NTA: Friend’s judgmental presence could ruin the whole weekend

“NTA for setting boundaries with recovering alcoholic at party “

NTA. Welcoming your sober friend, but not the party ruiner

Direct but justified response to a rude party guest
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“*No way*! That guy is an irresponsible, abusive disaster! “

Support your friend through his struggles, he needs you
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Setting clear boundaries with Total Disaster Guy. NTA

Choose who you want to celebrate with!
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Setting boundaries with a violent partygoer

Roommate’s broken stuff = no more invites. NTA

NTA: You and your friends are considerate of your sober friend

Friend enables belligerent drunk, both AHs. Party drama unleashed!

“NTA. You invited your sober friend, you didn’t extend the invite to include a person who’s not yet ready to be around people sharing a social drink. If your friend does not want to attend without the person who might relapse at such a party, then there’s always the next time. Just be honest, state that you do not want him to be there. Witnessing one relapse was enough.”

Politely declining a party invite due to sobriety concerns

Is your sober friend really staying sober?
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Uninviting a sober friend for bringing a trainwreck? NTA!

Friend’s poor boundaries and amusement-seeking behavior strain relationships.

NTA. You made the right call, and here’s why!

Party gone wrong: Flaming shots, broken stuff, and a hospital visit

Supporting someone’s journey through sobriety

Supporting a friend’s sobriety journey

NTA. Reach out to your friend and explain your reasoning
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Set boundaries and stand your ground. You’re not the a**hole! ♂️

Friend’s questionable choice of party company raises sobriety concerns

NTA. Stand up against AH behavior and cut toxic ties.

No compromise with someone who can’t handle substances. Period.
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NTA. Directness is key when dealing with manipulative addicts.

NTA. Your sober friend’s friend ruined your party.

“I won’t hang out with that a**hole again. You’re welcome!”

NTA – Setting boundaries with a sober friend’s problematic sponsee

Tactful but NTA: Party Drama Unleashed
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Curious if there’s more to the story?

NTA. Supporting sobriety and cutting out toxic friends

NTA and nailed it

“NTA. Holier than thou sober guy destroys property at party! “

Don’t enable bad behavior! Set boundaries and demand respect.

You made the right call! No invite for the jerk.

Choosing between friends and a sober asshole. NTA, it’s tough.
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Not the a**hole for not wanting to party

Avoiding property damage and buzzkills: NTA for setting boundaries!

Navigating party drama: When sobriety meets celebration.

No a-hole here, just a plea for understanding and compassion

NTA. Manipulative friend ruins gatherings, better off without him.

Handling party drama: NTA, suggest friend takes responsibility
