Hey there, Facebook fam! Have you ever been in a situation where you questioned the actions of both your friends and the people around them? Well, buckle up, because I’ve got a story that’s going to make you think twice about the company you keep. A friend of mine, let’s call him Carlos, recently told me a tale of a night out, accusations, and the end of our friendship. But now, I can’t help but wonder if I’m actually the one in the wrong here. So, grab your popcorn and get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions, because this story is about to take you on a wild ride!
A Night Out with Consequences

Meeting a Regular

Accusations Fly

Carlos Takes a Stand

Questioning the Story

Free Drinks, No Strings?

Regret Turns to Accusation

Carlos Gets Angry

Friendship Over

♀️ Am I Victim Blaming?

✋ Setting Boundaries

Green Lights, No Red Lights

No Force-Feeding, No Spiking

Edit: The Alleged Assault

Stop the Hate

No One Deserves Assault

❌ Falsely Accusing Isn’t OK

Accusations, Threats, and Broken Friendships
So here’s the tea, folks! ☕ Carlos tells me about his coworker who went out to a bar, got free drinks from a guy, and ended up making out with him. The next day, she claims she was sexually assaulted. Carlos and their friends take matters into their own hands by confronting the guy and threatening him. But when I question the girl’s actions and motives, Carlos gets angry and our friendship ends. Now I’m left wondering if I’m actually victim blaming or if I’m justified in questioning everyone’s actions in this messy situation. ♀️ Let’s see what the internet thinks of this predicament…
False accusation? Commenter shares similar experience with cheating girlfriend.

NTA evaluation supported, consent is clear, blaming victim is fallacy

Accusation of assault used as excuse for infidelity ♀️

Request for more info on woman’s lack of interest

Not all sexual assault claims are true ♂️

Importance of understanding consent and lack of details in assault case.

Swift justice served to a lying girl. #NTA

User criticizes Reddit’s response to a woman’s assault accusation.

Accepting drinks and talking all night implies interest. NTA.

Consent in question. Friend threatened accused. Stay out of it.

Supportive comment shuts down victim blaming in assault case.

Girl hooks up with regular, NTA for assault claim

NTA tries to reason with 21st-century ‘morons’

Debating consent vs manipulation in regretful night out

Consent is key, even if you regret it later.

Intoxicated guy taken advantage of by woman for free drinks

Friend fails to see the situation, but OP pokes holes. NTA

Debate on consent and regret in assault accusation.

Mixed feelings on woman’s assault claim in regretful night out

Going out, drinking, and flirting are okay. Crying assault isn’t.

NTA defends personal responsibility and accountability, cautions against false accusations

Age gap drama: NTA for fiasco, but beware of pseudo-adults

NTA: Diluting actual sexual assault, not assault if both drunk

User accuses woman of false assault claim to cover cheating
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Confusion and doubt surround the nature of the alleged assault

User questions woman’s sexual assault claim after flirtatious night.

User calls out woman for blaming alcohol after cheating.

NTA claims woman assaulted man after drunken night out

Female commenter frustrated with women not being accountable

Advice on communicating with violent ex-friend

Regret does not equal assault. NTA for calling it out

Defending against false claims of sexual assault, NTA verdict

Defending false accusations: Not the a**hole, she cheated.

Sarcastic response to victim blaming comment

Debunking the myth of alcohol changing your true self

Victim-blaming and slut-shaming in assault claim comments

User questions validity of assault claim; suggests more context needed.

Loose definition of sexual assault causing unnecessary trauma and legal trouble
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Accusation of false SA allegation sparks outrage and sympathy.

Misunderstanding or crime? Victim or perpetrator? The debate continues.

Speculation and frustration surrounding sexual assault allegations

Defensive comment defends accused and blames victim, no replies.

NTA defends against false sexual assault accusations. Controversial discussion follows.

Consent cannot be revoked retroactively, NTA commenter explains.

Cheating or Sexual Assault? NTA says toxic behavior, not victim-blaming

NTA. Accuser is a cheater looking for an excuse
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Standing up against fake sexual assault claims and cheaters

Accusation of assault to cover cheating? NTA calls it out

Consent is a two-way street . NTA prevails.

Victim-blaming and denying assault is not acceptable

User expresses frustration with false assault claims, calling them harmful.

Consensual night out turns into false assault accusation.

Victim blaming and violent threats? Not cool, Carlos.

Accusation of assault to cover up infidelity – NTA comment

Consent was given, friend needs to learn to respect women

NTA. Commenter calls out overly woke culture on Reddit.
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Debating the evidence: NTA for cheating woman or not?

Victim blaming at its finest.

Woman goes out, flirts and cheats, accuses man of assault

Personal safety comes first

False assault accusations must be taken seriously

Validating sexual assault claims is important, but false accusations hurt too

Cutting out drama for a better life

Consent is key: Understanding the nuances of assault cases

Accusation of cheating without evidence causes backlash

Carlos’s quick temper raises concern among commenters

Supportive comment calling out friend’s ridiculous reaction.

NTA calls out coworker for cheating, lying about sexual assault

Victim blaming? Commenter suggests woman provoked assault

Legal consequences for violent threats explained.

Consent form? Recording? Dating in 2021 is a minefield
