Imagine living in a beautiful oceanfront home, frequently hosting family members from all around the world. Now, imagine your fiancée’s family wants to stay, but you refuse because they never reciprocated the hospitality. Is it fair or just plain petty? Let’s dive into this heated debate between a couple and see if we can find some answers.
The Family Visiting Routine
Fiancée’s Brother Declines Their Stay
Annoyance Grows
Second Attempt, Same Result
Now They Want to Stay
Frustration Boils Over
The Family Debate
Family Expectations
Doubts and Annoyance
House Details
Their House Situation
Attractions and Expenses
Car Borrowing
Inconvenience and Annoyance
Petty or Justified?
A Battle of Hospitality: Who’s Right? ♂️
So, we have a couple at odds over whether to extend hospitality to the fiancée’s family who never reciprocated the favor. The homeowner is annoyed and feels taken advantage of, while his fiancée believes in helping family without expecting anything in return. With their oceanfront home near popular attractions, the debate gets even more heated as the brother plans to borrow their car, causing inconvenience. Is the homeowner being too stubborn and petty, or does he have a point? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this hospitality showdown! ️
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NTA. It’s bizarre that they would ask to stay with you after denying 2 of your requests (with a weird excuse). Additionally, if they require 3 hotel rooms, that’s a lot of houseguests. Just say no.
NTA. Offer hotel stay due to world event, not refusal.
Disparity in accommodation requests sparks heated debate. Huge NTA!
“Family should be mutually supportive, not one-sided. “
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NTA. Hosting a week-long stay for a big family? No way!
NTA: Family should help each other without expecting reciprocation.
NTA. Family favoritism can lead to toxic resentment.
INFO NEEDED. Are their circumstances a valid excuse? NTA OP
NTA. Fiancée’s family wants free stay, but won’t reciprocate. ♂️
NTA. Family is as family does. Return the energy
NTA. Brother’s double standard creates tension. Family staying elsewhere?
Protective homeowner refuses to host family, risking his own ♀️
“NTA. Set boundaries for future visits. Respect his space “
NTA. Prioritize your fiancée but set boundaries. Plan future visit.
Wife is right, BIL is TA. Explain the audacity!
Hosting a big family can be an inconvenience. You’re NTAH
Engage in a conversation to understand their concerns and find common ground.
NTA: Protecting family from ‘infection’ by staying in motel.
NTA, but is it worth the battle? Communicate and compromise.
NTA. Fair to refuse hosting fiancée’s family. Sounds like hypocrites.
NTA – Stand your ground! Don’t let them take advantage.
Home ownership, relationship status, and COVID concerns fuel tension.
User defends homeowner’s decision, calls it fair and not petty.
Is it fair or petty? NAH, but sometimes being nice matters
Fair or Petty? NTA: No free accomodations if they won’t reciprocate.
NTA: Family drama could jeopardize relationship. Brace for impact!
Engagingly confront the family about the accommodation double standard.
