Imagine this: You’re a new mom, your baby is crying non-stop, you’re running on zero sleep, and you look like a hot mess because, well, motherhood. Just as you’re trying to catch a breath, your partner’s family decides it’s surprise visit time. No heads up, no text, nothing. Just them, ready to invade your personal chaos. This is the reality for one mom who sparked a fiery debate after asking for a simple heads-up from her boyfriend’s family before they drop by. Let’s dive into this domestic drama and see where lines are drawn.
The Cry of the Colicky Baby

Unexpected Guests During Feeding Time

A Sudden Retreat Upstairs ♀️

The Downstairs Debate Begins

Family Feels Entitled ♂️

Dad Enters the Fray ☎️

The Clash of Perspectives

Repeat Offenders

No Love Lost for Grandpa ❤️

The Mother Next Door

The Great Family Debate: To Text or Not to Text?
So, here we are, caught in the crossfire of family dynamics and the sacred nap time of a new baby. It’s a tale as old as time: the battle between personal space and family obligations. Our new mom just wanted a heads-up, a simple text, but what she got was a family feud worthy of a soap opera. From surprise visits to grandpa’s unsolicited advice, it’s clear this isn’t just about texting; it’s about boundaries, respect, and a whole lot of drama. Now, let’s dive into what the internet thinks about this domestic showdown. Are surprise visits a family right, or is it time to set some ground rules?
NTA. Setting boundaries with family after having a baby

Debate over unannounced drop-ins: NTA vs. others’ preferences

“NTA. BF stands up to his overstepping family. Keep boundaries. “

“NTA they should be calling ahead if they plan to come over. Like, what if you’re not home and they come by? Entitled much also if they think you’ll drop everything to fit their schedule, what if you already had guests over or just put down the baby for a nap?”

NTA. Dropping in unannounced on parents of a newborn

NTA. Family’s weird drop-by habit sparks fiery debate

NTA. Fiery debate: sisters demand access to nephew without permission

NTA. Plus COVID!

“Family drop-ins without knocking? Time for new locks and boundaries!”

“NTA: Boundaries are still needed. Family is not an entitlement.”

Setting boundaries with in-laws: NTA, hilarious but effective approach!

NTA: Boundaries matter! A call or text is reasonable

NTA. Set boundaries and tell them to get over themselves

New mom sets boundaries, calls out selfish family expectations

NTA: Setting boundaries with family, dealing with fussy babies

NTA- Family should respect boundaries and communicate before visiting

Set boundaries with family visits: lock doors, ignore, and text

NTA. Set boundaries and ignore entitled family members.

In-laws caused chaos during baby’s first year. Stay strong mama

New mom calls out uninvited family drop-ins. NTA!

NTA. Setting boundaries with visitors, boyfriend supports.

Setting boundaries: NTA! Get locks and stand your ground

Set boundaries! It’s your house, your rules.

NTA. Set boundaries with consequences! Boyfriend’s got your back

Boundaries matter! Turn the tables and see how they react

NTA. BF and son support you. No need for appointments.

Setting boundaries with in-laws: firm but respectful communication is key.

Spicy comment sparks debate on unexpected family drop-ins
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NTA. Stand your ground and set boundaries for your new family!

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Last Updated on February 7, 2024 by Diply Social Team