A new father found himself in a difficult situation after his wife gave birth to twins. His in-laws unexpectedly showed up at their home, claiming they wanted to help. However, their version of ‘helping’ quickly turned into a nightmare, as they monopolized the babies, ignored the couple’s needs, and created more work for the exhausted new parents. The father eventually kicked them out, but now he’s questioning if he was in the wrong.
Unexpected Arrival of In-Laws

In-Laws’ Version of ‘Helping’

Disturbing the Babies’ Sleep

Ignoring the Parents’ Needs ️

Social Media Drama

Wife’s Exhaustion

Taking Action

In-Laws’ Accusations ️

Comparing Families

In-Laws’ Long Stay Plans ️

Blocking Communication

Wife’s Reaction ♀️

Improvement in Wife’s Condition

Family Ages

Father’s Dilemma: Was He Right?
After the birth of his twins, a father found himself at odds with his in-laws who unexpectedly showed up and overstepped boundaries. Their ‘help’ only added stress and exhaustion to the new parents. The father eventually kicked them out, but now he’s questioning if he was in the wrong. Read on to see how others reacted to his decision.
New dad sets boundaries with in-laws after twins’ birth. NTA
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Commenter receives praise for standing up for themselves.

New dad kicks out in-laws after twins’ birth. Commenter supports decision.
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Uninvited in-laws overstay welcome after twins’ birth

New dad stands up to in-laws during pandemic for newborn’s safety

Setting boundaries with in-laws after birth

New dad kicks out in-laws after twins’ birth. NTA

New dad kicks out in-laws after twins’ birth. Wife gets support

New dad sets boundaries with in-laws after twins’ birth

Respect for babies’ sleep is key. In-laws need to learn

New dad stands up to in-laws: NTA for taking out trash

In-laws who help with chores are helpful, not baby-hoggers

New dad stands up to in-laws after twins’ birth. NTA

Supportive comment section praises new dad for prioritizing family responsibilities

In-laws causing stress? NTA dad kicks them out

New dad stands up to in-laws after twins’ birth. NTA
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In-laws prioritize social media over helping new parents. NTA wins!

In-laws causing chaos? NTA dad kicks them out

New dad kicks out in-laws after twins’ birth. Hard NTA

Parenting twins is hard, kicking out in-laws was right!

New dad protects wife’s postpartum time from in-laws. NTA

New dad stands up to overbearing in-laws. NTA

Protecting his family and setting boundaries. NTA

New dad prioritizes wife and newborn over entitled in-laws

In-laws kicked out after twins’ birth. NTA, terrible houseguests

In-laws kicked out after twins’ birth. Commenter approves

New dad kicks out in-laws after twins’ birth: NTA wins

New dad kicks out in-laws after twins’ birth: NTA

New dad blocks in-laws’ angry messages, gets NTA support

Enjoy family time without in-laws

Aunt plays secret laundry fairy at midnight

Supportive comment and sweet reply

Congrats on the twins! You’re a great partner, NTA

New mom kicks out in-laws after twins’ birth: NTA

Supportive comment applauds new dad for being an awesome partner

New dad sets boundaries for in-laws after twins’ birth
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New dad takes charge and earns NTA judgment

New dad protects family, earns NTA judgement

New dad kicks out in-laws after twins’ birth. NTA for prioritizing wife’s stress.

In-laws overstayed their welcome after twins’ birth. NTA dad.

Uninvited in-laws? Witness protection sounds like a good idea. NTA

Grandma shows support for new dad’s decision during pandemic

Guests expected to be served food, not help new parents. GOAT aunt saves the day!

Parenting win! Supportive partner kicks out in-laws post-birth

New dad stands up to entitled in-laws during postpartum period

New dad reduces in-laws’ visits for better quality of life

Normalize not having visitors unless they are truly support people
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New dad kicks out in-laws after twins’ birth: NTA, says commenter

In-laws wanted newborns in their bedroom instead of nursery. NTA.

Protective new dad kicks out in-laws after twins’ birth. NTA!

New dad kicks out in-laws after twins’ birth – NTA comment defends him for waking babies up.

New dad sets boundaries with in-laws after twins’ birth ♡

Partner’s in-laws invaded after birth, OP’s NTA for kicking out

New dad seeks validation for kicking out in-laws after birth

In-laws show up uninvited, make more work, stress wife. NTA!

New dad protects vulnerable wife and twins from entitled in-laws

New dad kicks out in-laws after twins’ birth. NTA and deserves apology.

NTA! In-laws treating twins like dolls. Good luck keeping them away

New dad defends wife and twins, earns Gold Star Partner

A new dad stands up to in-laws, earns praise from fellow mom

Loving partner defends new mom, kicks out in-laws

Protective new dad defends twins and sets boundaries with in-laws

New dad sets boundaries with in-laws during pandemic. NTA

In-laws mooching off new parents after twins’ birth

Unannounced in-laws? YTA dad should have kicked them out sooner!

New dad kicks out in-laws after twins’ birth, deemed NTA

New dad kicks out entitled in-laws after twins’ birth. NTA

Cheers to the new dad for standing up for himself!

New dad kicks out in-laws after twins’ birth: NTA

Commenter believes dad was not the a**hole.
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Setting boundaries with in-laws after twins’ birth. NTA

New dad stands up to entitled in-laws after twins’ birth
