New Coworker Jokes About Wife as ‘Ball and Chain’ – Concern or Overreaction?

We’ve all heard the old-school jokes about spouses being ‘ball and chains,’ but how would you react if a new coworker made such a joke? One 21-year-old found themselves in this exact situation during a happy hour with colleagues. The coworker, Sean, joked about lying to his wife to go out for beers, as she ‘wouldn’t let him out.’ The protagonist, a little tipsy and concerned, decided to ask Sean if he was okay, leading to an awkward exchange. Did they read the room wrong, or was their concern justified? Let’s dive into the story.

Happy Hour with Coworkers

Sean’s ‘Ball and Chain’ Jokes

A Little Drunk and Worried

Abusive Past Comes to Mind

Asking Sean If He’s Okay

21 and Single, Doesn’t Get It

Sean’s Confusion

“You Know Women…”

Conversation Changes Topics

Embarrassing the New Guy?

Not Getting the ‘Relatable’ Bit

Cringy and Sexist Joke?

Concerned or Overreacting? The Verdict ‍♀️

So, was our protagonist right to be concerned, or did they just misread the situation? It’s a tough call, as the ‘ball and chain’ joke is undeniably outdated and cringy. However, it’s also possible that Sean was just trying to fit in and make light of his situation. One thing’s for sure, this happy hour was anything but ordinary! Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

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