Imagine this: You’ve just installed a shiny new pool in your backyard, dreaming of tranquil summer days. But wait, there’s a catch! The local kids have turned your oasis into the neighborhood hotspot, and not in the way you’d hoped. One kid, in particular, has taken a liking to your pool, showing up uninvited and parent-free. Now, you’re pondering a controversial rule: “No parent, no pool.” Sounds like a simple solution, right? But as we dive deeper, you’ll see it’s anything but. Let’s splash into the story that’s got everyone on the edge of their pool chairs ♂️ .
The Pool Installation Saga Begins ️

An Unexpected Visitor Makes a Splash ♂️

A Reluctant Yes Turns into a Solo Swim ♂️❌

A Compromise That Didn’t Sit Well ♂️

Not Running a Daycare, Just a Pool

The Uninvited Guest Dilemma ♂️

A Spouse’s Plea for Peace ☮️❤️

Setting the Ground Rules Early

Liability Concerns Addressed ✅

The Great Fence Debate

Patience, People! The Fence is Coming

Temporary Solutions in Place

Diving into the Deep End of Neighborhood Etiquette
So, there you have it, folks. What started as a dream of backyard bliss quickly turned into a community conundrum. With the pool barely finished, our homeowner finds themselves navigating the choppy waters of neighborhood dynamics, safety concerns, and the quest for peaceful coexistence. It’s a tale as old as time: boundaries, both literal and figurative, and how we enforce them. As we float on the surface of this story, we can’t help but wonder about the ripple effects of a “no parent, no pool” policy. Will it lead to harmony or just more splashes of drama? Let’s see what the community waves have to say about this splashy situation.
NTA: Private pool drama sparks debate over neighborly boundaries

NTA. Reasonable rule for liability. Protect your house and family.

NTA. Pool safety and privacy concerns.

NTA. Privacy and safety concerns, plus fence construction in progress

Safety first! NTA for not wanting random kids in your pool

NTA: Liability concerns and unwanted visitors, talk to them directly.

NTA, but pool rule may backfire. Backyard invasion inevitable ♂️

NTA: Safety first! Protect yourself and your pool from liability.

Stranger’s kid asks to swim in your pool? Get that fence up IMMEDIATELY!

Setting pool rules: YWNBTA. Your responsibility, your boundaries

Setting pool rules is necessary for a drama-free summer
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NTA, but be cautious! Pool accidents can have devastating consequences

NTA. Protect yourself and set clear guidelines for your pool

NTA. Liability concerns and potential babysitting nightmare. Set ground rules!

You have the right to make the rules!

Use a color-coded system to indicate if the pool is open

Take responsibility for your pool and supervise the kids!

Respect boundaries! Your pool, your rules. NTA for enforcing them

Avoiding lawsuits: NTA’s concern about random neighbor kids at pool
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NTA but wow! A pool It’s a wonderful asset and a total pain in the a**. Set clear ground rules or you’ll need to hire a lifeguard!

Pool policy protects against liability

Lifeguard’s frustration: Parents not watching kids at the pool
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Legal standpoint: No kids swimming without parents? ♂️

Protect yourself from liability! Install security cameras and update insurance.

Safety first! NTA for requesting parental supervision at your pool.

NTA. Set boundaries for your pool. Respect and enforce them.

NTA: Pool liability concerns spark debate on safety precautions.

Being nicer than expected while dealing with a difficult parent.

Safety first! Consider using a floating alarm in the pool

Teacher questions if child asked mother about pool policy

NTA. Safety first! Protect yourself from potential blame and accidents!

NTA. Don’t be their free child-minder! Safety first
