Mother’s Money Mayhem: College Fund Sparks Sibling Rivalry ‍ ‍

Meet our 54-year-old mom, who’s found herself in the middle of a fiery family feud. With three children and a friendly ex-husband, life was going smoothly until a college fund sparked a sibling rivalry. The fund, initially meant for education, has now become the battleground for her daughters’ conflicting desires. Let’s delve into this dramatic tale of money, fairness, and family dynamics.

A Friendly Divorce and a College Fund

Trade School Twist and Wedding Wishes

A Wedding and a New Life

Oldest Daughter’s House Hunt

Middle Daughter’s Meltdown

“Daddy’s Favorite” – A Bitter Accusation ‍

A Mother’s Dilemma ‍♀️

A Brother’s Verdict ‍⚖️

A Family Torn Apart: Who’s Really to Blame?

In the midst of this family fiasco, our mom is left questioning her decisions. From funding trade school to a wedding, and now potentially a house, the college fund has become a catalyst for conflict. The middle daughter’s accusations of favoritism have left the parents stunned, while the oldest daughter’s request seems reasonable. The brother’s verdict adds another layer of complexity, suggesting that the mother should have been more explicit about the fund’s usage. As the drama unfolds, we can’t help but wonder – who’s really at fault here? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation… ️‍♀️

Sibling rivalry over college fund: NTA explains fairness and options ‍ ‍

Sibling rivalry over college fund and wedding expenses. NTA, be consistent.

NTA. Oldest got scholarships, middle daughter used money for wedding ‍ ‍ . Confusion over rules.

Middle daughter got money, oldest daughter wants it for house

NTA. Middle daughter wants more money after wedding. Don’t give in.

Middle child asks for new option, older child supports her. NAH

Sibling rivalry over college fund and future expenses. NTA.

NTA. Seek therapy to resolve resentment and avoid guilt trip

Did daughter assume wedding fund was ‘use it or lose it’?

Middle child entitlement sparks sibling rivalry. NTA, end of story.

NTA. Fairness in distributing funds for education and wedding expenses.

Middle daughter used college money wisely, older daughter deserves equal treatment.

Rewarding scholarships and renegotiating funds: fair or unfair? ‍ ‍

Fair and smart NTA comment sparks sibling money rivalry

NTA. Entitled sister wants your money. Spend it how you want

Sibling rivalry over college fund, NTA. Don’t take back agreement.

Sibling rivalry over college fund leads to distribution of funds.

Fairness questioned: NTA, but funds not limited to college/marriage ‍ ‍

Middle daughter regrets spending money on wedding instead of house. NTA.

“NTA – It’s your money, not theirs. Equal distribution matters!”

NTA. Daughter’s scholarship vs sister’s needs. Fairness questioned ‍ ‍

NTA. Entitled daughter causes sibling rivalry. Let her stew ‍♀️

Fairness of college fund sparks sibling rivalry. NTA.

Middle child’s jealousy sparks sibling rivalry ‍♀️

Did the middle child spend the money on her wedding?

NTA-

Children who expect money past adulthood risk entitlement. Fracture already there.

NTA. Daughter should be grateful for wedding payment. No a-hole here.

Sibling rivalry over college fund. NTA for treating daughters equally.

NTA- Older daughter used scholarships for school, middle child jealous.

Middle daughter’s entitlement sparks heated debate among commenters

Middle daughter’s oversight sparks sibling rivalry. ‍ ‍

NTA Stick with your guns and ignore the ridiculousness.

NTA. Middle child needs to stay in her lane.

“NTA. Treating your children equally is fair and reasonable. “

NTA: Encouraged education, now daughters have extra money for life

Wedding payback: Fair or petty? Share your thoughts!

Middle daughter’s entitlement sparks sibling rivalry over college fund

Daughter’s greed sparks debate: NTA for favoring other daughter’s house? ‍ ‍

Spending college fund on home vs wedding: NTA, valid points

Sibling rivalry over college fund. NTA shuts down entitlement argument.

Sibling rivalry over college fund, but NTA for prioritizing marriage/house.

Sibling rivalry sparks over college fund distribution.

NTA. Unfair to withhold money for daughter’s future needs.

Middle child unaware of other uses for college fund

Sibling rivalry over college fund vs wedding expenses ‍ ‍

Sibling rivalry over college fund. NTA wins!

Middle child’s jealousy fuels sibling rivalry and resentment

Regretful daughter blames mother for wedding expenses, wants more money

NTA: Stick to your original decision, buying a house is wise ‍ ‍

Sibling rivalry over college fund sparks financial dilemma.

Sibling rivalry over college fund sparks ridiculous complaint

NTA, gave money for college and starting life, sisters made choices.

Sibling rivalry over college fund. NTA takes the win!

Fairness and regrets: Middle child’s wedding vs sister’s fund

Not the a**hole. Let’s hear the juicy details!

Middle daughter’s nosiness and entitlement sparks sibling rivalry. NTA

NTA. Sibling rivalry over college fund and wedding expenses ‍ ‍

Sibling rivalry resolved with college fund. Totally NTA!

NTA: You gave her money, she should repay you for wedding

Debunking the myth: Can $30k cover school and weddings?

NTA: It’s your money! Don’t let tantrums change your plans!

Sibling rivalry over college fund, NTA called sister a brat

NTA: Protecting your eldest daughter’s money was the right move

Sibling rivalry over college fund sparks heated debate.

Daughter’s logic questioned, sparks debate on wedding funds distribution

Middle child spent the rest of the money for herself?

Sibling rivalry over college fund turns into housing dispute. ‍ ‍

Middle daughter wants more money. Eldest daughter’s self-marriage solution

Middle kid’s entitlement sparks sibling rivalry. NTA.

Sibling rivalry over college fund, NTA for not sharing equally ‍ ‍

NTA, but communication is key with your kids! ‍ ‍

NTA. You’re the boss. Kids got everything they asked for

Daughter’s entitlement sparks sibling rivalry