Mother’s Emotional Trauma: A Justification for Yelling or Not?

Imagine living in a house where the ticking time bomb of emotional trauma is set to explode at any moment. Two sisters, aged 16 and 18, have been walking on eggshells around their single mother for years. Their mother’s volatile nature, sparked by her unresolved emotional trauma, has led to a home environment filled with tension and loud, unnecessary arguments. The girls have tried to keep the peace, but everything came to a head recently, leading to a major confrontation. Let’s delve into their story… ️‍♀️

The Divorce and its Aftermath ️

Mom’s Volatile Nature

The Cold War Begins ❄️

The Major Showdown

The Attempt at Resolution ️

The Unyielding Stance

The Emotional Trauma Card

The Unapologetic Standoff

The Ultimatum

The Final Plea

The Emotional Text Exchange

A Ticking Time Bomb or a Call for Understanding?

Caught in the crossfire of their mother’s emotional trauma, these two young girls are left questioning their own actions. They’ve tried to maintain peace, but their mother’s volatile nature has made it difficult. Despite their attempts to communicate, their mother remains unyielding, using her emotional trauma as a shield. The girls are left feeling guilty, wondering if they’re being too hard on their mom, who despite her flaws, has been a good parent most of the time. Let’s see what the online community has to say about this emotional rollercoaster.

NTA: Parent’s emotional trauma shouldn’t be taken out on kids

NTA: Overcoming a toxic step parent and finding peace

NTA. Family therapy needed, but mother won’t admit her problem

Trauma explains, but doesn’t excuse. NTA for setting boundaries.

Mom’s job frustration: Does she explode or stay calm?

NTA. Prioritizing mental health while maintaining boundaries with mom.

NTA! OP’s mother’s behavior affects kids for years

NTA Your mom is being selfish and insensitive. Can you live with your dad?

NTA: Justified in being distant from a terrible parent.

Yelling at kids: NTA explains struggle, seeks validation from parent.

NTA – Create distance, be respectful, and protect yourselves.

NTA: Dealing with a childish parent, finding peace in silence.

Family therapy can help if yelling is ruining relationships. ‍ ‍

Cutting toxic ties with mom, surprised Pikachu face

NTA suggests family therapy, but others warn against enabling abuser.

Relatable! NTA, been there, know the emotional trauma

NTA: Demanding change, but who needs therapy?

Yelling: Manipulative and abusive or justified in emergencies?

Sibling support: Taking charge of your own life and independence.

NTA. Trauma isn’t an excuse to treat others poorly.

Yelling at teens: justified for hot pan emergencies?

Mentally healthy OP calls out AH mom’s lack of improvement!

Personal experience shows yelling is a choice, NTA.

“NTA. Dealing with a difficult mother is tough, but stay strong! “

NTA, mom needs professional help to heal from divorce trauma.

NTA: You were mature, she declined, then guilt-tripped.

Teen girl schools adult woman on histrionics, NTA wins!

NTA. She needs therapy ASAP!

NTA: Dealing with toxic family members and finding a way out.

Surviving emotional abuse: standing up for yourself with love

Mother’s emotional trauma doesn’t excuse her yelling. NTA!

Navigating the yelling minefield with mom.

NTA. A calm conversation or therapy could help your mom.

NTA. Yelling isn’t normal. Protect yourselves and find support.

NTA. Overcoming trauma and prioritizing children’s well-being

NTA: Standing up for yourself and planning for independence.

Emotionally immature parent blames others for their own behavior.

Defending justified yelling: a lesson for all on this sub.

NTA – Traumatized mother needs therapy to regulate her emotions.

Growing up with an emotionally unstable parent: seek professional help. ‍

NTA, but where’s your dad? Consider living with a relative.

NTA. Emotional trauma from yelling at home creates damaged relationships.

NTA: Freedom to break windows due to abusive upbringing?

NTA. Empathy for mom’s emotional struggle, support for maturity

“Mental health is not your fault, but it is your responsibility”

NTA: Relatable! Emotional immaturity and questionable parenting.

Mother’s emotional trauma: A call for accountability and empathy.

Don’t let her gaslight you! You’re not crazy, NTA!

NTA: Kids should feel safe and heard, not on edge.

Escaping the Cycle: NTA for setting boundaries with your mother

Overcoming the cycle of yelling and trauma. You’re not alone.

NTA, OP, your mother’s emotional abuse is unacceptable. Seek help.

Sharing trauma: NTA’s mother marginalizes and one-ups, setting boundaries.

“NTA. Your emotionally abusive mother is demanding warmth from you.”

NTA: Set boundaries and suggest counseling for your mother.

Is this my mom? Definitely not the a**hole!

Yelling’s impact: Trust issues, unhealthy environment. Disengage from yelling situations.

No excuse for yelling. NTA stands up for self.

NTA: Peaceful resolution attempted, therapy suggested for mother. ‍

Mother’s emotional trauma justifies yelling? NTA stands their ground.

Mom’s Monty Python discipline: ‘Beating until morals improve’

Escaping a toxic parent and finding support in siblings

Growing up with an emotionally unstable mom: NTA, seek help!

Escaping toxic family dynamics for better mental health

Escaping an abusive mother: Setting boundaries and finding freedom.

NTA. We’re all responsible for our actions, no yelling pass.

Avoiding yelling: stating the obvious or seeking family counseling?

Empathizing with a relatable situation.

Empathy and understanding for recognizing inappropriate behavior.

NTA: Yelling and screaming never leads to anything good

“NTA all the way, your mom needs therapy. “

NTA claps back at entitled parent with fiery ultimatum!

Civil conversations turn into emotional battles.

YTA for lying, but NTA for standing up to your mom.