It’s a situation no parent should ever have to face – planning your child’s funeral. But when the grieving mother is torn between inviting her ex-husband, who was a father figure to her daughter, and respecting her daughter’s biological father’s wishes, the situation becomes even more heart-wrenching. As the mother grapples with this painful decision, she finds herself caught between family, emotions, and the memory of her beloved daughter. Let’s delve into this emotionally charged story…
A Young Love Story with a Twist

The Struggle of Addiction

A New Chapter Begins

A New Love Enters the Scene ❤️

A Heartbreaking Revelation

A Father’s Redemption

A Brave Little Fighter

An Uninvited Guest?

A Difficult Decision Looms

A Final Note

A Clarification

A Father’s Redemption, Part II

A Mother’s Heartbreaking Dilemma: Caught Between Love, Loss, and Loyalty
The tragic loss of her daughter Kaylee has left this mother in an emotional whirlwind. As she navigates the painful process of planning a funeral, she’s faced with a difficult decision – should she invite her ex-husband, who was a father figure to Kaylee, or respect the wishes of Kaylee’s biological father who is against the idea? With her family divided and emotions running high, this grieving mother is left to make a decision that will impact them all. As the world watches, the question remains – what would you do in her shoes?
Ex-husband wants to attend daughter’s funeral after years of absence. NTA

Debate over inviting absent father to funeral sparks strong opinions

Father’s absence and lack of effort raises suspicions and guilt.

Ex’s absence for years, now wants to show up? NTA!

NTA debates inviting ex to daughter’s funeral after abandonment.

Curiosity about the ex’s relationship with the daughter sparks discussion

Curiosity about why the ex wasn’t informed about Kaylee’s illness

NTA: Ex’s entitlement and disrespect during your loss is unacceptable.

Ex’s absence from daughter’s life justifies excluding him from funeral.

NAH, but hypocritical: bio father judges the stepfather who stepped up

YTA: Ex-husband deserves to pay respects to his stepdaughter’s memory.

Heartbreaking dilemma: Should the ex be invited to the funeral?

Step-father left in the dark. Daughter’s silence raises questions.

Heartbreaking loss. Ex’s absence raises doubt. NTA, follow your comfort.

Let him come for closure. Your daughter would’ve wanted that.
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“YTA. Didn’t tell him she was sick. LMAO.”

Only the ex should attend the funeral, not his family.
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OP’s lack of communication leads to a major conflict.

NTA: Ex not invited to funeral, but given location for goodbye.

Ex wants to come to funeral with new family. NAH.

Heartbroken mother reflects on ex’s absence at daughter’s funeral.

Choose who supports you at the funeral. NTA

Family drama: Who’s the troublemaker if ex is invited?

NTA: Ex fell in love with someone else while sleeping beside you.

Focus on your daughter and say goodbye without distractions.

YTA. Ex raised her for 7 years. He deserves to be there.

Don’t invite him, he wasn’t there when it mattered.

Heartbreaking condolences for a devastating loss.

NTA: Ex abandoned her, facing consequences. You owe him nothing.

Engaging Comment: NTA, let him come if he stayed in contact.

Excluded bio dad deserved a chance. YTA for hiding and excluding.

Ex didn’t care during her life, why now at her funeral?

Grieving mother asserts her right to set ground rules for daughter’s funeral.
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Engaging opinion on inviting ex to daughter’s funeral.

Ex-husband’s audacity sparks outrage and calls for police intervention.

NTA. Your daughter, your grief. You decide how to say goodbye.

Should the ex be allowed to pay his respects?
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Compassionate commenter suggests ex should attend daughter’s funeral alone.

Ex wants to attend daughter’s funeral after abandoning her. NTA.

Invite the ex to mourn his step-daughter.

Curiosity piqued: What’s the untold story behind this funeral drama?

“YTA- You’re the a**hole. Don’t deny him closure. “

Stepdad’s absence: daughter’s feelings and his lack of effort

NTA: Ex wants to play grieving father after no contact?

Ex-husband’s abandonment after divorce. NTA, condolences for your loss.

Funerals don’t typically have invitations. What’s going on here?

Inclusive grieving: Let love, not egos, guide the funeral arrangements.

Ex’s love and support vs. father’s absence. Tough decision.

Including the ex can provide comfort and support during grief

Ex left, now he demands? Block him out!

Ex abandoned daughter, no obligation to invite him

Should the ex be invited to the funeral?
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Heartless decision at a funeral sparks intense debate.

Funeral invites are rare, but obligation can make attendance awkward.
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Heartfelt sympathy and support for not inviting the ex.

Ex left, not part of life. Okay if he sends wreath.
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NTA for not inviting the non-bio dad to the funeral!

Ex moved countries, failed to keep in touch?

Ex’s absence at funeral sparks debate. NTA’s choice explained.

Invite him to the wake for closure, but it’s your decision.

NTA: Ex absent for 4 years, can’t turn it around now.

Deciding whether to invite the ex to the funeral

Ex ghosted daughter, no right to grieve.

Heartbroken mother excludes ex from daughter’s funeral, justified?

Heartbroken mother decides not to invite ex to daughter’s funeral

NTA. Focus on your own grief, not on your ex.
