Motherhood Tug-of-War: Grandma or Mom, Who’s Who in this Toddler’s World?

Imagine this: You’re a mother who’s been away from your toddler for a year due to personal reasons. You’ve done your best to keep in touch and now you’re finally back, ready to reconnect. But there’s a twist – your little one now calls his grandma ‘mom’. This is the reality for one woman, who found herself in a complicated family drama when her mother decided to step into her shoes. Let’s dive into this emotional saga.

The Unexpected Homecoming

The Uncomfortable Revelation

The Unsettling Explanation

The Heated Argument

The Bitter End

The Aftermath

The Clarification

The Heartfelt Explanation

The Future Uncertain

Motherhood or Grandmotherhood? A Family’s Dilemma ‍

In this emotional whirlwind, a mother returns to her son after a year, only to find him calling his grandma ‘mom’. The grandma, having stepped into the mother’s role during her absence, believes she’s earned the title. A heated argument ensues, leading to a painful separation. The mother, battling her own health issues, now faces the challenge of redefining roles and rebuilding relationships. As the dust settles, therapy is on the cards for the little one, and a potential reconciliation hangs in the balance. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this tangled web of love and conflict.

Grandma’s manipulative move to be ‘mom’ sparks outrage and support

ESH: Grandma’s role confusion causes tension, counseling needed for resolution.

Abandonment issues and custody battle: therapy and support are crucial

“NTA” – OP’s struggle with grandma over mommy title and role

Taking care of yourself is crucial for being a strong mom

ESH. Grandma wanted to be called mom, causing conflict. Boundaries needed.

Did the grandma make the toddler call her ‘mommy’?

Mom takes a step back as Grandma hijacks her child.

NTA. Document everything and save texts to protect your rights.

“NTA. Your mother crossed a line trying to take your child away. “

NTA for leaving child with grandma, ESH for miscommunication.

NTA: Grandma lied, mom shamed, rebuild bond and rekindle relationship

Grandma’s love is irreplaceable, even without the ‘Mom’ title.

NTA. That is beyond f**ked up.

Grandma’s deception and alienation: NTA, not healthy for the child.

NTA. You’re the mom, not your mom. Seek therapy for challenges.

ESH. Mom abandoned child, grandma stepped up, now a tough decision.

Grandma’s manipulation causes confusion and heartache for the mother.

Grandma vs Mom: Who’s in Charge? NTA’s Perspective

Creepy AF: Grandma vs. Mom in Toddler’s World

Medical reasons prevent mom from caring for son. NTA.

Blurred roles: Grandma’s sick and self-serving actions confuse the child.

Grandma vs Mom: Who’s the Real Parent?

Mom trusted grandma, but she stole her child. NTA!

NTA: Manipulative grandma tries to replace you in your child’s life.

Confusing post about hospitalization and improving oneself as a parent.

NTA in a way… Grandma vs Mom tug-of-war with confusion

NTA. A heartbreaking betrayal by your own mother. You’re strong

“NTA. Grandma crossed the line. Protect your son from her! “

NTA. Prepare for potential grandparents rights legal case. Contact lawyer ‍�

NTA. Creepy as hell, keep him away from Mother Gothel.

Grandma’s overstepping boundaries and potentially trying to steal your kid

ESH. Overstepped boundaries, abrupt removal, but lucky to have support.

Mom vs Grandma: A custody battle with insults and abandonment.

Hospital drama: Grandma tries to cut mom out of toddler’s life!

Mom sets boundaries with grandma over toddler’s custody. ‍

Rehab or not, denying visitation is wrong. Let’s be fair.

ESH. Grandma’s actions caused confusion, but banning her is traumatic.

Grandma overstepped boundaries, take a time out! NTA

NTA. Seeking help to be a better mom. Grandma crossed boundaries.

Grandma as a mother figure? NTA, but discuss it first!

Misunderstood mom defends herself against accusations of abandonment.

NTA. Overcoming health challenges while being a responsible mom

“NTA: Grandma’s alienation caused lasting confusion for my brother.”

NTA: Defying toxic family dynamics to prioritize your child’s well-being

“NTA. You’re still his mother. She was trying to replace you. “

Grandma’s self-proclaimed ‘mom’ title causes a NTA tug-of-war.

NTA. Hope this can be resolved for the child’s sake

NTA. Overcoming emotional abuse with your tender loving care.

Grandma overstepped boundaries, causing tension. NTA for being upset.

Gender bias in this sub? Let’s discuss!

Grandma crossed the line, trying to replace you as mom.

Former foster kid advocates against foster parents alienating bio parents.

NTA… your mom could have corrected him, let him see you in person and picked something else to call her and she didn’t… plus you have been a better mom not leaving, maybe but you did what you did and now your back and you have the right to allow who you want in your child’s life

NTA. Supportive grandma helped with toddler, unlike manipulative mom.

Grandma vs. Mom: Who’s the Real Mom?

Not the a**hole, but who’s the real mom here?

“Granny’s secret agenda: Keeping the toddler away from Dad. NTA!”

NTA, grandma should’ve corrected the kid. TV is no excuse.

NTA. Heartbreaking betrayal from trusted caregiver. Postpartum depression struggles shared.

NTA. Document everything and consult a family attorney ASAP!

Grandma’s strange behavior causes confusion and emotional harm to child

‍ NTA! Don’t let toxic family guilt you. Keep your head up!

“NTA Seems like the grandma isn’t as innocent as she seems “