Meet our heroine, a 39-year-old mother of three, who’s had enough of the men in her life. After losing her mother to COVID, she moved in with her father to help run the family farm. Juggling her father’s needs, the kids, and the business, she’s been stretched thin. With her husband more interested in fishing than helping, and her brother’s assistance being rejected due to prejudice, she’s decided to take a stand – by refusing to do any work around the house, including cooking Thanksgiving dinner. Let’s dive into her dramatic story. ️
A Mother’s Breaking Point

A Family’s Desperate Move

The Unhelpful Husband

The Returning Hero

A Shocking Revelation

The Unveiling of Prejudice

A Mother’s Stand

The Thanksgiving Showdown

A Family in Disarray

A Mother’s Doubt

A Husband’s Realization

A Promise of Change

A Mother’s Assurance

A Stand for Respect

A Family’s Hope

A Family’s Turmoil: The Aftermath of a Thanksgiving Rebellion
In a desperate attempt to address inequality in her household, our heroine, a mother of three, decided to stop all housework, including cooking Thanksgiving dinner. This bold move sparked a family conflict, with her husband storming off in anger and the kids left to fend for themselves. But her stand also led to a surprising turn of events. Her husband returned home with a newfound understanding of his failings, vowing to make amends. As the dust settles, we wonder: will this dramatic stand lead to a more harmonious household? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
YWBTA if you let your husband return home. Move brother and BIL in and get needed help with the farm. Let husband know he can come back when he’s in therapy and ready to apologize.

Keep the gays, kick the homophobe! A powerful stand against bigotry

Divorce over bigotry? NTA makes a bold stand against sexism.

User questions OP’s choices, calls out toxic family dynamics

NTA: Breaking free from toxic relationships and embracing a better future! ✨

“I never thought he would act like that towards anyone, much less my own brother.”

Skipping Thanksgiving dinner won’t mend this situation. ESH.

ESH for inviting brother and husband to homophobic household. NTA for Thanksgiving, but bigger problems.

ESH for marrying a homophobe and enabling his behavior. ♀️

OP defends their family against accusations of racism. YTA ♀️

ESH, but mostly your husband. Time for him to man up and help out.

OP’s husband’s homophobia creates a toxic environment for family. NTA.

Unpacking a bold stand: NTA, but why still married?

Stand up against misogyny and protect your family.

YTA: A controversial suggestion to end the Thanksgiving drama.

“Homophobic family drama: ESH. Secret homophobia exposed. “

“Enabling a homophobe? YTA. Take a breather and reflect. “

YTA’s homophobic husband and father make brother feel unwanted

Toxic family dynamics ruining Thanksgiving?

♀️ Bold stand or step too far? Homophobic husband sparks controversy

Divorce your homophobic husband and leave the toxic family dynamic.

Empathetic commenter supports OP’s decision to stand up for herself

Fiery comment sparks intense family drama and calls for change

YTA for neglecting kids and exposing them to abuse.

NTA. Your husband needs to step up and show respect.

Marriage to a bigot leads to a toxic Thanksgiving showdown

Call out sexism and move forward. ✊

ESH, except brother and BIL. Tough situation with emotional consequences.

Time to act! Save your relationships before it’s too late!

Escape the bigotry! Join your brother and his husband ❤️

Family feud: A Thanksgiving dinner turns into a battleground.

YTA: Time to ditch the gross husband!

YTA for not getting the kids and leaving.

YTA for prioritizing Thanksgiving over supporting your brother

Stand your ground! Take the kids and join your brother! ✊

Curiosity about family dynamics and potential resentment in moving.

NTA for skipping Thanksgiving dinner. YTA for enabling disrespect.

Winner picked, but YTA if you let him back.

Standing up against Thanksgiving drama and assholes!

NTA: Take a break, talk it out with the family

NTA. Brother deserves support, not rewarding selfish, bigoted behavior.

Taking a stand against misogyny and homophobia at Thanksgiving!

YTA for tolerating a homophobic AH as your husband

Bold stand against misogyny and homophobia, prioritize self and kids

Take a stand, stop being a doormat.

Fiery family feud: bigotry, betrayal, and a Thanksgiving disaster!

YTA for marrying a homophobe? Family drama unfolds…

NTA: A bold stand against a homophobic husband and father.

A messy situation with homophobic husband, unwelcoming father, and uprooted brother. What’s the goal?

Prioritize your children and advocate for their well-being.

Selling the farm: a solution or a family feud?

Stand up for yourself! Don’t let him back in!

YTA for neglecting your kids on Thanksgiving. Seek help

NTA for making your husband do his own shit. Keep peace.

Supportive commenter calls out husband’s bigotry, stands with OP ❤️

Divorce and escape: a desperate cry for freedom! ♀️

YTA married a bigot, moved to farm, made shitty bed

YTA for marrying a homophobe, NTA for needing help. ❤️

NTA, but family drama and homophobia cause Thanksgiving chaos.
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Questioning a marriage to a bigot.

YTA for accepting your husband’s inexcusable behavior. What’s your game?
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