Mother Faces Off with Son’s Guidance Counselor, Revealing His Bullying Past

Picture this: Your child is being bullied, and the school guidance counselor, who’s supposed to help, was a notorious bully back in his day. What would you do? One brave mother didn’t hold back, confronting the counselor about his past and demanding justice for her son. Let’s dive into this heated story that’s got the internet buzzing.

The Bullying Begins

A Confusing Cruelty

The Retaliation and Mediation

The Guidance Counselor’s Dark Past

A Chance for Redemption?

The Meeting Takes a Turn

The Counselor’s Bias Emerges

The Mother’s Fiery Confrontation

The Counselor’s Defense ️

The Mother’s Stand

Turning the Tables

A Mother’s Victory

A Mother’s Stand Against a Bully, Past and Present

In a dramatic turn of events, a mother finds herself standing up not only for her bullied son but also against the school guidance counselor’s biased handling of the situation. The twist? The counselor, Mr. J, was a notorious bully in his youth. ️ As the meeting unfolds, the mother courageously confronts Mr. J about his past and his apparent favoritism towards the bully. In a fiery showdown, she reminds him of his own bullying history and questions his ability to handle the situation fairly. In the end, she takes matters into her own hands, resolving the issue herself, and leaving Mr. J with a lot to think about. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

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ESH: Both kids were wrong, and OP behaved inappropriately.

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Not the a**hole. Tell us more about the confrontation!

NTA, stand up to biased counselor and end bullying.

“YTA. You’re too focused on seeing the bully get admonished rather than the bullying stop. The counselor is trying to redress the root cause of the behavior. Perhaps he is more empathetic of the bully because he was a bully and has a way better understanding of the situation than you. Perhaps he became a counselor precisely because he wants to help kids going through tough times and acting out because of it. You seem to be approaching this with the logic of ‘He’s on the bullies side because he was a bully!’ and that’s absolutely foolish. Your son isn’t entirely an innocent party here – he said something to the bully with the intent to hurt him. He may not have started the situation but he certainly escalated it. That’s common behavior at his age but it’s still worth redressing that just because you can say something hurtful doesn’t mean you should. You completely undermined the counselor by bringing up his middle school behavior. Seriously, think about the situation a bit more objectively next time. You’re in defense mode to protect your son and I get it, but you need to recognize that his response was just as if not more so problematic than the instigators behavior.”

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NTA! Don’t let him near your child again!

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Empathy for the bully? No way! NTA, you’re right!

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Bullying past revealed, counselor’s response is insane!

NTA. Bullying counselor deserves no empathy. Child needs proper help

Son’s bully and his past come to light, causing conflict.

Parental denial and tragic consequences.

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NTA. Bullying past revealed, no redemption for this bully!

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“Mom confronts counselor, gets standing ovation. Job offer follows.”

You’re the a**hole? Let’s hear the juicy details!

ESH, redirecting blame doesn’t make you the angel

Attacking the counselor’s past undermines his authority. ESH