Hey there, Facebook fam! Gather ’round because I have a juicy story for you. It’s about a young woman who confronted her mom after she called her and her siblings ‘accidents.’ You see, her mom had been cheating on her dad and left the family without saying goodbye. Six long months later, the daughter decided to reach out and ask her mom some tough questions. But what she heard wasn’t what she expected… Curious to know what happened next? Keep reading!
Not So Close Mom and Daughter ♀️

The Cheating Scandal

Mom’s Disappearing Act

The Text Message

Six Months of Silence

Little Brother’s Heartbreak

Reaching Out

Mom’s Explanation

Falling Out of Love

The Real Reason?

Meet Dave, the New Boyfriend

The ‘Fun’ Excuse

Mom’s Regret

The ‘Accidents’

Anger and Accusations

Six ‘Accidents’?!

Confronting Mom

Mom’s Many Kids

Godmother Responsibilities

Standing Up for Siblings ✊

Mom’s Absence

Love and Boundaries ❤️

Grandma’s Call

Sibling Ages for Reference

Daughter Confronts Mom for Calling Them ‘Accidents’
After six months of no contact, our brave 18-year-old protagonist decided to confront her mom about her sudden disappearance and the hurtful comment she made about her kids being ‘accidents.’ During their emotional meeting, the mom revealed she left because she didn’t love the dad anymore and wanted to rediscover herself with her new boyfriend, Dave. But when the daughter pressed her about why she hadn’t reached out, the mom admitted she never wanted to be a mother and having kids ruined her life. This led to a heated exchange, with the daughter standing up for her siblings and calling her mom out for her irresponsibility. But was she in the wrong for making her mom cry? ♀️ Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Mother abandons her 6 kids and calls them accidents. Commenter sympathizes.

Validating comment on difficult family situation

Having 6 kids can’t be an accident, NTA for OP

NTA, but deeply traumatic scars due to flaky, self-centered mom

Supportive comment encourages cutting off toxic family members

Grandmother’s reaction shows not all family is worth keeping ❤️

NTA stands up to abusive mother, grandmother defends her anyway

Grandma didn’t teach her daughter consequences, but OP did

Heartfelt response offers support to someone called an ‘accident’ ❤️

Standing up to a cheating parent who ruined lives NTA

Heartbreaking! Commenter sympathizes with OP and condemns mother’s actions.

Grandmother defends daughter’s actions; OP not in the wrong. NTA

Your mom’s behavior was inappropriate and hurtful. Talk to grandma.

NTA, toxic family members should be cut off

Abandoned by mother, called ‘accidents’; grandma calls her out.

NTA! Your mother is a selfish woman! She abandoned her kids calling them ‘accidents’ . Move on, make better choices

Supportive comment, encourages therapy and staying strong.

Hilarious comment about cooch liability with supportive reply.

NTA commenter calls out mother’s behavior and family toxicity.

Standing up to a victim-playing parent: NTA wins!

Standing firm against family pressure to support unfit parenting.

User calls out mother for abandoning kids, labels her a ‘slut’

Using the term ‘accidents’ is cruel and harmful. NTA.

Savage comment shuts down mom’s reckless behavior

Abandoning 6 kids is not an accident . Suggest therapy for all.

Finding siblings through shared traumatic experiences

NTA. Having 6 kids is a choice. Your mom needs self-reflection.

NTA. Empathizing with the commenter, condemning the mother’s actions.

NTA comment advises OP to move on from selfish mother.

Brutal but accurate description of a terrible mother

Break the cycle – inspiring comment to a struggling young adult.

NTA receives support and encouragement for standing up to toxic mother.

No excuses for abandoning your kids. She’s the a**hole

Mom abandons kids, called them ‘accidents’. Commenter calls out selfishness.

NTA, OP’s mother had multiple opportunities to correct her behavior

User suggests standing up to grandmother, no replies.

When honesty hurts: family conflict and tough love

Mother abandons 6 kids, calls them ‘accidents’. User agrees, calls mother egoistic.

Contraceptives and abortion as a backup plan.

NTA. Birth control options were available 30 years ago

NTA. Tough situation, but your mom is very irresponsible

NTA, calling out a neglectful parent. She can find herself alone

NTA comment suggests cutting contact with mother for abandoning kids.

The long-lasting impact of parental resentment and regret

NTA commenter calls out double standard in parenting, no replies.

Woman with 6 kids, 3 baby daddies, regrets not having fun

NTA, mother abandons kids and expects gratitude? Cut her off.

Comparing a surprise to being called an ‘accident’ seems insensitive

Mature response to mother’s ‘accidental’ abandonment; NTA
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NTA comment: Mother’s ‘accidents’ blame is unacceptable

Parenting is hard, but never tell your kids they’re mistakes

Supportive comment with relatable experience

Heartbreaking story of abandonment and trauma with supportive replies.

Motivational comment to cope with abandonment

Standing up for truth and responsibility

Heartbreaking story of a mother who abandoned her children , but the commenter reminds us that the children are not to blame

Empathetic reply to NTA comment about being called ‘accidents’

Grandma’s enabling is wrong. Adoption was an option. NTA

NTA for standing up to selfish mother and grandmother

Supportive comment. Hug your dad extra

Standing up to an irresponsible parent. NTA

Insensitive comment, let’s refrain from slut-shaming

Validating the kids’ anger and disappointment towards their mother

NTA comment blasts mother for irresponsible behavior and trashy attitude

Cutting ties with toxic family members is necessary.

Defending against infidelity, but blaming kids is unacceptable. NTA.

Heartbreaking story of a mother’s abandonment and her children’s pain.

Mother’s actions are gross and irresponsible. NTA.

NTA commenter condemns mother’s actions and grandma’s enabling behavior.

NTA. Some people just don’t deserve to be parents

Supportive comment, empathizing with OP’s tough situation.

Mother abandons 6 kids, asks for pity party. Commenter suggests NC.

Grandma gets roasted for defending irresponsible parents.

Impressive 18-year-old stands up to abusive mother, NTA
