Mom’s Vacation Showdown: Demands Help or Pay Up

A mother of five, including a baby on the way, planned a fun-filled family vacation to Hawaii. However, when her husband couldn’t join due to a work emergency, the trip took a turn for the worse. The mother struggled to manage her children and enjoy the vacation, but her oldest son, Danny, refused to help out. Frustrated and exhausted, she confronted him, demanding he either step up or start paying for his own expenses. The incident left the family divided, with some supporting the mother and others siding with Danny.

Family Vacation in Hawaii ️

Missing Dad and Unhelpful Son

Danny’s Absence During Activities ️

Mom’s Stress Levels Rise ️

Confronting Danny

Mom’s Ultimatum

Family Reactions

Returning Home

Additional Details

Danny’s Job and Introversion

The Great Family Divide

A mother’s confrontation with her unhelpful son during a family vacation in Hawaii has left their family divided. With her husband absent, she struggled to manage her children and enjoy the trip. When she demanded that her oldest son, Danny, either step up or start paying for his own expenses, reactions were mixed. Some family members supported the mother, while others, including her in-laws, sided with Danny. What do you think? Share your thoughts and reactions.

Commenter calls out OP for neglecting her children, YTA.

Commenter calls out entitlement, others agree

Parentifying children is not okay. YTA for expecting free childcare.

Commenter calls out OP’s parenting and reliance on older children.

Expecting a 21-year-old to help with younger siblings on vacation without prior agreement is unfair. YTA

A heartbreaking story of a mother’s neglect and sibling responsibility.

Calling her son a “co-parent” is Ahole behavior. Sad situation.

Commenter calls out parent for being TA, suggests family planning.

Teenager relates to comment calling out unfair sibling responsibilities. YTA

Commenter calls out entitled mom for demanding free labor. YTA

Establish expectations before paying or offering rent-free living. YTA

Commenter calls out parentification of child.

Commenter calls out parent for expecting oldest kids to parent, YTA

Parenting struggles – YTA demands help or pay up

Commenter calls out entitlement of mother’s childcare demands

Mom gets called out for expecting too much from son

User suggests responsible parenting and contraception use ‍

ESH. Adult son should chip in, but parents should hire nanny.

Mom faces backlash for expecting older kids to babysit siblings

Expecting free babysitting from adult children makes YTA

Commenter calls out parent for neglecting responsibilities.

Commenter calls out parent for expecting child to babysit siblings.

Be honest about expectations. YTA for misleading Danny.

Commenter suggests husband is also at fault YTA leaning

User calls out parent for expecting older children to babysit. YTA.

Parental responsibility, YTA. Don’t burden your eldest with siblings.

Commenter calls out irresponsible parenting with a fiery YTA

Taking 4 kids to Hawaii? Good luck with that

Don’t force your son to be a babysitter on vacation . Try incentivizing instead.

Commenter calls out entitled parent for expecting strangers to parent.

Vacation or not, don’t leave the kids behind

User calls out entitled mom for expecting non-parent to babysit

A blunt comment with no replies.

Mom demands stepson to take care of her kids. Commenters say YTA

Mom’s co-parenting claim backfires, labeled YTA by commenters

Mom demands son to babysit siblings on vacation, internet calls her out

Commenter calls out entitled mom for neglecting her responsibilities.

A blunt comment, but is there truth in it?

Let your son enjoy vacation his way!

Commenter calls out entitled parenting and sibling babysitting.

Mom demands 21-year-old son to take care of her young kids. Commenters call her out for being TA.

Comment on parenting sparks agreement among readers

Debate over parentification and entitlement in family vacation arrangements

Commenter calls out parentification, wishes freedom for children.

Commenter calls out parent for shirking responsibilities.

Mom asks son for help on vacation, gets called an a**hole. NTA.

Mom faces criticism for expecting her sons to co-parent. YTA.

Don’t burden your kids. YTA according to fellow mom

Cancel the trip if you can’t handle kids, YTA

Taking care of so many young kids is exhausting

User defends OP, arguing that commenters are overreacting and not understanding the situation. Replies clarify that the issue is not just spending time with family, but also helping with crying children.

Commenter calls out parent for using kids as babysitters

Expecting your son to co-parent makes YTA. Handle your responsibilities.

Commenter calls out bad parenting and co-parenting with son

Last Updated on April 26, 2023 by Diply Social Team