Picture this: A father has a very public affair with a younger woman, leaving his wife for her. The wife’s cold, stoic reaction leaves everyone wondering how she truly feels. Fast forward to their son’s engagement party, where the ex-wife, the father, and the mistress-turned-wife are all present. The tension is palpable, and the son’s fiancée is caught in the crossfire. What could go wrong?
Dad’s Scandalous Affair

Mom’s Mysterious Reaction ❄️

Unfazed and Unemotional

Mom’s Silent Treatment

New Beginnings: Marriage and Engagement

Mom’s Friends vs. Dad’s New Wife

The Snarky Comment Heard ‘Round the Party

Fiancée’s Defense and Mom’s Response ️

Praising Mom’s Graciousness

Fiancée’s Furious Reaction

Accusations and Tensions Rise ⚠️

Fiancée’s Lingering Resentment

Mom’s Unexpected Reaction: Gracious or Petty?
At their son’s engagement party, the ex-wife’s cold reaction to her husband’s mistress-turned-wife is put to the test. When mom makes a snarky comment about the younger woman’s looks, her son’s fiancée jumps to the new wife’s defense. The son praises his mom’s graciousness, but his fiancée is furious, accusing him of being an affair apologist and sexist. With tensions rising and emotions running high, who’s in the right? And what does this mean for the future of their relationships?
Fiancée’s lack of empathy raises red flag for commenter.

NTA. Mom chose to keep it classy and not make a scene

Mom’s graciousness after dad’s affair stuns commenter

NTA comment praises mom’s maturity and warns about fiancee’s behavior.

Fiancee and mother-in-law acted classless, commenter calls out disrespect.

NTA commenter empathizes with mom’s concerns about affair, advises communication.

Taking the high road after infidelity? Gracious or petty?

Stand by your mom, NTA.

Fiancée prioritizes childish MIL over mature mother. NTA.

NTA for being indifferent to dad’s affair, but ESH for family drama.

ESH except mom. Friends turned engagement party into drama.

User questions if the fiancé is the right choice. NTA.

NTA commenter praises mother’s grace and maturity over MIL’s crassness.

Choosing grace over pettiness wins the day.

Classy mom shuts down drama, but is fiancee worth it?

NTA commenter advises caution with toxic in-laws and fiancee.

MIL’s snarky comment causes awkward situation for dad’s wife

Defending mom’s reaction to dad’s mistress, but is pettiness justified?

NTA’s mother chose to be a class act amidst infidelity drama

Showing compassion for MIL/fiancee can help smooth things over

Mom’s stoic reaction raises questions about her true feelings

Supportive comment defends mother’s reaction to dad’s mistress.

Mom’s grace and poise in a painful situation. NTA.

NTA comment turns ESH as misogynistic behavior is exposed ♀️

User calls out OP for being biased towards dad in affair.

NTA comment praises mom’s gracious reaction to dad’s mistress.

Mom’s entitled to her feelings, no one can dictate that

Fiancée overstepping boundaries? NTA commenter thinks so

Condemning affair doesn’t justify petty insults. NTA.

Red flags in family dynamics, biased viewpoint excusing parents.

Mom’s graciousness praised, concerns raised about fiancee’s pettiness.

Mom’s class and feminist values shine through in breakup aftermath.

Fiancé stirs drama over mom’s reaction to dad’s mistress.

User questions double standard in handling infidelity with ‘grace’

Supportive comment on parents’ relationship and remarriage.

Seeking context to judge mother’s behavior at the party

ESH for mom being a doormat and snarky comments. Sad world.

Run! In-laws like that? No, thank you.

Defending a parent’s affair or taking the high road?

NTA comment: Mom’s reaction was gracious and appropriate.

Mom’s grace under pressure earns NTA judgement

Calling out sexism and infidelity. No one’s off the hook.

ESH except mom. Commenter calls out OP’s dismissive attitude towards affair.

Mom’s behavior towards dad’s mistress: NTA and gracious

Mom’s double standards are ESH-worthy

Blaming the new wife for cheating is sexist. NTA.

Mom’s forgiveness is admirable but grudges are hard to shake.

Reconsider your future with a petty fiancée

User questions OP’s acceptance of father’s infidelity, praises mom’s grace

NTA defends saintly mom who took high road with dad’s mistress.

Being gracious in tough situations takes real guts

Praising mom’s class and grace, facing unpleasantness. NTA.

A warning from a concerned commenter about the fiancée’s behavior.

NTA commenter calls out classless behavior and mean girls

Insightful comment on family dynamics and self-reflection

Mom’s silence on divorce: gracious or petty?

Mother’s graciousness praised, fiance criticized for mean behavior

Supporting mom, but watch out for fiancée’s concerns.

Think twice before chaining yourself to an immature partner

Support for mom’s gracious response to dad’s mistress.

Supportive comment about mom’s reaction to dad’s mistress.

Red flags for the fiancée, reconsider the marriage.

NTA comment praises mom’s gracious response to dad’s affair.

Supporting your mom’s decisions doesn’t require your fiancée’s approval.

Think twice before marrying into a family with a nasty MIL

NTA comment applauds mom’s classy response to dad’s mistress.

Mom’s classy reaction to dad’s affair earns praise.

NTA defends OP’s mom and shuts down assumptions.

Handling infidelity with class and grace.

Supportive comment highlights toxic behavior of partner and encourages reflection.

Think twice before marrying into a red flag family. NTA.
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Mom’s class and grace shut down unnecessary drama.

Mom’s response to dad’s mistress is a god-level power move

Mom’s gangsta reaction to dad’s mistress. NTA. Fiancé, not her circus.
