Picture this: You’re a new mom, completely drained, and haven’t had a moment to yourself in months. Your sister’s wedding is around the corner, and you need a few hours to find the perfect dress and get your hair done. You leave your baby with your husband, who’s not used to being alone with the little one. What could possibly go wrong? Well, buckle up, because this is one wild ride!
Meet the Exhausted New Mom!

A Break from Mommy Duties? ️ ♀️

Dad’s Babysitting Debut!

The Countdown Begins! ⏰

Dad’s Panic Mode Activated!

A Fire Alarm or a Prank?

The False Alarm Unveiled!

The Big Reveal!

The Blame Game Begins! ♀️ ♂️

Police Intervention!

Family Feud!

Self-Doubt Creeps In!

Who’s the Real Firestarter Here? ♀️
In the midst of the chaos, our new mom finds herself questioning her actions. Was it wrong to leave her husband alone with their baby for a few hours? Or was her hubby’s fire prank a desperate cry for help? The drama doesn’t end there! With the police questioning the husband and his family blaming her for the whole situation, she’s left wondering if she’s the one who lit the fuse. Let’s dive into the internet’s take on this explosive situation!
NTA – Husband’s lack of involvement and manipulation sparks outrage

“NTA, but your husband brings new meaning to being one.”

Husband can’t handle baby alone, mom deserves time for herself!

Father criticized for not being able to care for child

“Utterly disgraceful.” NTA, a**hole husband interrupts wife’s much-needed break.

NTA: OP married an entitled, selfish, misogynist a-hole who won’t parent.
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NTA. Childcare drama escalates to fake fire alarm. Relationship in trouble

NTA, but your husband is an a**. Ask him to hire a babysitter.

NTA, but discuss child rearing responsibilities with your husband.

NTA: Partner’s lies and lack of involvement in parenting is concerning. ⚠️

NTA: Taking time for yourself is important, don’t tolerate lies!

Mom’s Day Out: Husband needs parenting lessons!

NTA! Alarming situation with controlling partner. Therapy needed for red flags.

Husband’s true colors revealed: NTA, but no father material

Financial abuse and isolation in a relationship. Seek counseling.

NTA- Husband’s manipulative behavior deserves a break.

NTA. Husband’s family sucks. You’ll be raising two kids!

NTA for needing time off. Communicate with him for understanding.

Mom questions if she’s forever tied to baby, sparks debate

Concerned about husband’s behavior while taking care of child.

Lazy partner? NTA for standing up. Family drama ensues.
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Engaging comment: ‘NTA. It’s his son too.’

NTA. Seek therapy, talk to sister & friends. His behavior is abusive.

“NTA. Dad needs to step up and take care of his child. “

(I’m 11m) When I was six, I took care of my 3-year-old sister for 4 hours every Friday. And he can’t handle it for a DAY!! WTAF!? He’s worse than a child, he’s a full-out baby!

Weaponized incompetence: A go-to tactic for avoiding domestic work. NTA

NTA. Engage with him and ask why he’s scared of parenting.

Time for a divorce lawyer! Drama alert!

The challenges of being a single mother.
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No self care allowed? NTA, seek legal and family support!

Op, leave him! He’s manipulative and abusive! You’re NTA!

NTA mate, but be careful with coercive control. Seek help!

Escape the manipulation and embrace single parenthood!

NTA. Taking a break doesn’t make you a bad parent!

Comment: Why do women marry these a**holes?
Reply: They’re capable of hiding it until they trap the women.

Exhausted SAHM seeks support from husband: NTA, but…

SAHM deserves a break! NTA, schedule weekly self-care time.
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Husband gets called out for being a terrible father!

NTA: Wise advice for women about having children with children

Parenting fail! Can’t handle his own kid for 4 hours

NTA. Husband needs to grow up and take responsibility.

NTA. Reflect on your future with an unreliable parent.

Enraged for you! Your husband and his family are AHs!

Reconsider your relationship if he can’t handle his own kid

Toxic relationship: controlling, manipulative, and neglectful. Leave for safety!

NTA. Consider counseling and creating an exit plan.

NTA: Your partner needs to grow up and support you

Joining a club for self-care saved my sanity!

NTA! Your husband’s behavior is concerning and manipulative!

Husband’s extreme behavior and lack of parenting skills causing trouble!

“NTA. Omg the NTA of it all. Look, sure, maybe E S H on a technicality because apparently you lied about the timing. you don’t explain how 2 hours became 4, but the omission makes it seems like it was a deliberate hedging on your part. BUT EVERYONE CAN SEE WHY (except, it seems, your husband). But NTA because your husband inspires rage in so many ways for this stunt. Given his reaction, your lie by omission sounds like you did it because your husbands a jerk who acts like a teenage big brother to his son rather than his father. The babysitter thing is really getting me—”why did you guys need a babysitter when your son has you?” Because apparently he *only* has you. Apparently, you’re a single mom. And when single moms need to run errands without their kids they hire babysitters. Otherwise, they would, idk ask the kid’s dads to watch them for an afternoon. But if the kids’ dads can’t handle that, the way your husband can’t, then you need to find a responsible adult who will and from the way he responded, he is not that responsible adult. Honestly, how does your husband need this explained to him? Dude, you had to handle your own child for a few hours and you literally responded by telling your wife the house was on fire. And then you got mad when she called emergency services. Which she did because *you told her there was a fire*. So she thought her husband and child were in danger of dying. And then you got mad her for it. WT actual F. Edits: I just realized I keep editing this because I feel like I honestly cannot properly express my disbelief at the husband. Just…wow.” –

NTA!!!!! Dad’s lack of effort and family’s cruelty

Supportive comment. Seek help to regain your independence and freedom!

Awful marriage? NTA! Reconsider and ditch the TA husband!

Dump the loser! Don’t settle for a deadbeat dad.

NTA, but husband faked a fire to avoid parenting duties

OP, don’t justify AH behavior. Self-care is not a luxury

Drama alert! Questioning women’s choices but ultimately NTA.

NTA: Concerns about husband’s parenting skills, red flag situation.
