We all want the best for our children, but sometimes our own fears and insecurities can get in the way. One mom found herself in a tricky situation when her autistic son Jack befriended James, a deaf boy, at the playground. The boys quickly became best friends, but James’ overprotective mom wasn’t so thrilled about their growing bond.
Jack’s Special Connection with James

Meeting at the Playground

A Budding Friendship

Best Friends Forever

A Protective Mom’s Objection

A Reality Check

A Father Steps In

An Exciting Outing Planned

Standing Up for Friendship

A Battle of Wills Over Friendship
When Jack and James’ friendship began to blossom, Jack’s mom decided to plan a special outing to an aquarium for both families. However, James’ mom objected, fearing that her deaf son would be left out if he made too many friends who weren’t deaf. Undeterred, Jack’s mom stood up for their friendship, and James’ father eventually stepped in to make the aquarium trip a reality. But James’ mom wasn’t happy about it, leading to a confrontation at the playground.
Dad steps up to help son make friends. NTA wins.
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Deaf son makes great friend, overprotective mom needs to back off

Overprotective parenting can hinder deaf children’s social skills. Be patient!

Heartwarming comment about a thoughtful deaf child and great parenting

Breaking barriers for a normal childhood

Curious about father’s involvement in deaf son’s social life.

NTA! Overprotective mom tries to keep deaf son from making friends

Dad saves the day and helps son make friends

Deaf community can be exclusive, but denying help is toxic. NTA

Supportive comment from an autistic adult, advocating for disability solidarity

Standing up for a deaf child’s right to make friends
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Could James’ mom’s behavior be rooted in discrimination? NTA, OP.

Inclusive playdates for a deaf child sparks gatekeeping conflict.

Kids find a way to connect if they want to

Deaf child’s mom tries to control friendships. Commenter supports OP’s action.

Deaf son’s mom limits his life, commenters question her motives

NTA- Jack is going above and beyond to be inclusive and understanding
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Deafness creates challenges in social situations, even with hearing aids. ♀️

Insightful analysis of the mother’s behavior and suggestions for action.
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Deaf child’s mom refuses playdate, dad calls. NTA for helping.

Encouraging NTA parent learns sign language for deaf son

Curious commenter seeks context for NTA judgement on screaming incident.

Putting the kids’ happiness first

Support for a parent who cares about their deaf child

Encouraging friendship is great, but be careful with feedback delivery

Mom’s attitude towards son’s deaf friend is unacceptable

Encouraging NTA comment with helpful resources and advice.

NTA mom advised to write an empathetic letter to James’ mother

Mom prevents deaf son from making friends to avoid exclusion ♂️

Empathy wins! Friendships with shared experiences are priceless.

Heartwarming comment about a thoughtful and wonderful son ❤

Deaf commenter sympathizes with James and criticizes his mom’s behavior.

Heartwarming story of a kind and caring child learning sign language

Deaf mom isolates son, commenter supports NTA and advocates inclusion

Deaf commenter shares experience and encourages inclusion for the boy.

Deaf people are loud? NTA comment explores a common misconception.

Encouraging a Deaf child to learn ASL is beautiful

Mom’s need for attention is hurting her son’s social life

Deaf boy’s mom thinks he’s at a disadvantage without deaf friends

Acceptance is key. Deafness doesn’t define one’s ability to thrive.

NTA handled it well, but mom’s reasoning is confusing

Clear window face masks can help the deaf read lips

Suggests kinder approach to mom’s overprotectiveness

Making friends is important for everyone, regardless of differences.
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Heartwarming friendship triumphs over ignorant parenting

Mom tries to sabotage son’s playdate, commenter defends NTA

Blind friend proves disabilities are what you make of it

Heartwarming comment about a beautiful friendship

Encouraging comment about deaf son’s kindness and advice for mom.

Praise for son’s character in face of mother’s behavior

Standing up for a boy you barely know

Isolation from sensory problems can be overwhelming. Encourage independence

Deaf child’s mom prevents him from making friends. NTA comments.

Mom prevents deaf son from making friends, OP’s child includes him

Mom’s ableism is preventing her son from making friends. NTA.

Mother’s motives for son’s friends not in his best interest

Empathize with stressed mom, but offer support instead of berating.

User calls out commenter for r**e behavior towards mother.

Parental grief can lead to mistreatment of deaf children.

Insightful comment on navigating deaf culture and respecting boundaries.

Parenting advice unwelcome, ESH except kids and James’ father

A commenter calls out the OP for being a competitive, manipulative control freak

Fierce clapback to overbearing parenting with YTA acronym.

Father’s rights respected in deaf son’s friendship, NTA wins

Compassionate son, supportive dad, and mother of the year
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Heartwarming comment about a compassionate son and his friend

Deaf son’s friendship held back by overprotective mother. NTA.

Inclusive parenting praised for sweet and thoughtful son
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Deaf son deserves a social life too. NTA for sure

Deaf commenter prefers deaf friends over hearing ones

Encouraging kindness in children is heartwarming

Heartwarming comment about a good kid and his deaf friend

Parent praised for raising compassionate child, deemed not the a**hole.

Defending a deaf child’s right to have friends.

Last Updated on February 12, 2024 by Diply Social Team