Picture this: you’re on holiday with your family, enjoying a meal at your favorite cafe. Suddenly, a stranger sits down at your table and starts talking to your kids. What would you do? One mom found herself in this exact situation, and her protective instincts kicked in. But when she discovered the stranger had Down Syndrome, things took a dramatic turn. Let’s dive into the story.
Apology for the Title

Unexpected Encounter

Confusion and Alarm

Protective Instincts Kick In

Husband’s Inaction ♂️

Down’s Syndrome Not Recognized

Confrontation Ensues

Not a Friendly Person

Angry Mother Approaches

Holiday Ruined? ️

Card Thrust and Rejected

Standoff Ends

Regret and Hindsight

Would Have Acted Differently

Mother’s Confrontation Questioned

Was Mom’s Reaction Justified? ♀️
This mother found herself in a tense situation when a stranger with Down Syndrome sat down at her table and started talking to her kids. Her protective instincts kicked in, and she asked the man to leave. Later, the man’s mother confronted her, accusing her of ruining their holiday. The mom regrets her angry reaction, but maintains she couldn’t tell the man had Down Syndrome. She believes she would have acted differently if she had known. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Setting boundaries with disabled adults: an important discussion on safety

NTA, OP felt anxious but empathetic towards the man with Down’s

Mom blames OP for her own negligence. NTA!

NTA. Comment and replies discuss the mother’s responsibility and the man’s innocence.

NTA defends dogs from entitled man, sparks heated confrontation.
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NTA. Down Syndrome man needs boundaries, his mom is an a**hole.

ESH: Unaddressed frustration leads to explosive confrontation. Social anxiety acknowledged.

Mom defends son’s right to interact, others question her perspective.

NTA. Disabled people can still do messed up things. Stay safe

NTA. Stranger sits at family’s table, sparks confrontation.

“NTA. No boundaries. Disabilities aren’t an excuse.”

Engaging comment: NTA. Down Syndrome or not, that’s extremely odd behavior. Lit rally, WHO would feel comfortable with some random adult sitting down with you and your family pretty much only talking to your children?

NTA: Don’t invade occupied tables! Mother should know better.

Mom defends herself after confronting man with Down Syndrome

NTA defends decision to protect children from inappropriate behavior.

NTA. Setting boundaries for a person with Down’s syndrome

Mom coddles son with Down Syndrome, enabling his inappropriate behavior.

Uncomfortable encounters with a special needs coworker

Setting boundaries with empathy: NTA for protecting your space

NTA, but let’s not assume all disabled people are dangerous
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