Imagine cooking for your teenage daughter, only to have her constantly criticize your culinary skills and compare them to her stepmom’s. That’s the situation a 40-year-old mother finds herself in after her ex-husband moves back to town with his new wife. The daughter, Erin, can’t seem to enjoy her mom’s cooking anymore, even her old favorites. After weeks of complaints and refusals to eat, the mom finally snaps and tells Erin to cook for herself if she doesn’t like the food. But is she in the wrong for doing so? Let’s dive into this culinary conundrum! ️
Divorce and Dad’s Return

Mom’s Cooking Routine

Enter Stepmom and Her Cooking

Daughter’s Newfound Love for Stepmom’s Food

Mom Tries to Adapt

Daughter Refuses Mom’s Cooking

Mom’s Breaking Point

Daughter’s Reaction and Family’s Judgement

Seeking a Second Opinion

Food Availability Clarification

Snacks and Options Galore

Mom vs. Stepmom: The Great Cooking Showdown
After weeks of hearing her daughter Erin rave about her stepmom’s cooking and refusing to eat her own meals, this mom finally reaches her breaking point. She tells Erin to cook for herself if she doesn’t like her food, leading to family members calling her unreasonable. But with a fridge full of food and options, is the mom really in the wrong? Or is Erin just being picky and ungrateful? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this culinary clash! ️
Stepmom’s cooking or dad’s attention? NTA but underlying issues.

NTA. Daughter can learn to cook if she dislikes mom’s cooking

Daughter being a brat, NTA. One week on/off suggested

Teaching kids to cook and appreciate food. NTA

Teens should learn to cook. NTA for mom.

Daughter has to cook for herself if she dislikes mom’s cooking

Parenting advice and humor in NTA comment and replies

Daughter wants Kim-inspired food, mom says cook your own. NTA.

16-year-old told to cook for herself, commenter supports it.

NTA. Teaching independence and responsibility early on

Daughter won’t eat mom’s cooking, NTA suggests solution

Cooking with your daughter can be a bonding experience

Teaching responsibility: NTA mom suggests daughter cook for herself

Mom’s not the a**hole for daughter’s picky eating habits
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Support and empathy for a teen struggling with parental issues ❤️

Encouraging NTA comment suggests daughter should learn to cook for herself

Daughter critiques mom’s cooking, told to cook for herself. NTA

16-year-old can cook, NTA for telling her to fend herself

Mixing up names, but NTA. Parent, not restaurant

Daughter ungrateful for cooking, mom suggests she cook or buy.

Don’t let her be a spoiled brat

Encouraging NTA comment promotes learning cooking skills for daughter

Commenter defends OP and humorously questions daughter’s motives

Advice on communicating with a potentially unaware teenage daughter

NTA comment: Daughter should cook her own meals
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No-nonsense approach to cooking sparks agreement in comment section

Independent daughter gets NTA for cooking skills

Teaching responsibility: NTA mom suggests daughter cook for herself

Teen takes responsibility for own meals, commenter deems NTA

NTA encourages daughter to cook, surprising she hasn’t tried

Daughter’s picky eating habits lead to cooking for herself. NTA

Commenter suggests disordered eating tendencies, offers empathy and advice ❤️

Teaching daughter to cook and appreciate different styles.

NTA. Daughter unappreciative or picky, should cook for herself.

Teen daughter can cook, NTA for mom’s request.

Parenting done right! Daughter now a successful surgeon

Daughter approves mom’s decision with a thumbs up

Cooking rule: be gracious, no criticisms. Daughter needs a wake-up call.

Mom’s kitchen rule gets NTA approval

Teaching kids basic survival skills is important

Commenter questions the mother’s true intentions

Standing firm against rudeness, even from a grown adult

Encouraging daughter to eat at dad’s house raises disordered eating concerns

NTA comment receives no replies

Cooking skills vary, daughter can cook at 16. NTA

Daddy’s little bug: NTA comment calls out entitled daughter and dad
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Daughter agrees, no a**hole here

Daughter approves of mom’s response to cooking criticism

Concerned commenter suggests possible eating disorder in daughter.

Teenage rebellion phase, daughter trying to prove she’s not uncool

Collaborate with your daughter and take a cooking class together!

Daughter won’t eat mom’s cooking, but won’t communicate. NTA.

NTA – Daughter should learn to cook instead of complaining

16-year-old can cook and shop for herself. NTA.

Teaching kids to cook and be independent is NTA
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Daughter refuses mom’s cooking, NTA suggests letting dad cook.

Encouraging independence and life skills through cooking

Cooking with mom could be a bonding experience for both

Mom’s rule is fair and teaches independence in cooking
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Encouraging independence in cooking. NTA

Parent empathizes, suggests talking to daughter, and gives NTA judgment.

Daughter should learn to cook or fend for herself occasionally

Punishment meal teaches appreciation and cooking skills

Encouraging independence in teens. Not the a**hole.

Daughter’s rebellion against mom due to new stepmom’s influence

Teaching kids to cook early on. NTA

Handling the situation well, but underlying issues need addressing

Commenter suggests talking to ex to stop game playing.

Daughter complains about mom’s cooking, gets told to cook herself

Picky eater defends OP, suggests cooking for oneself

Encouraging daughter to cook for herself, NTA.
