Imagine this: you’re a hardworking mom of two, and you finally get a chance to take a much-needed vacation. You leave your kids in the care of a trusted family member, only to return and find out that your children have been surviving on a diet of…microwave pancakes? This is the shocking reality one mother faced after her well-deserved break. Let’s dive into this syrupy saga…
Meet the Hardworking Mom
The Struggle is Real
A Much-Needed Break ️
Enter the Babysitter ♀️
The Shocking Discovery
A Messy Situation
The Babysitter’s Quick Exit ♀️
The Pancake Revelation
The Babysitter’s Denial ♀️
The Daughter’s Confirmation
The Husband’s Intervention
The Family Feud
The Pancake Predicament: Who’s in the Wrong?
In a shocking turn of events, a vacationing mom returns to find her home in chaos and her kids surviving on a diet of microwave pancakes, courtesy of their aunt. The babysitter denies these claims, insisting she fed the kids a variety of meals. The dad, caught in the middle, sides with his sister, causing a family feud. Now, the mom is left questioning who’s really in the wrong here. Is it her for expecting more, the babysitter for allegedly skimping on meals, or the dad for not taking his daughter’s side? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this sticky situation…
“YTA. Did you expect your 3 yr old to give you a detailed list of all meals? “
“YTA. Your kids were safe and cared for. Be grateful.”
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YTA for expecting perfection from free child care!
“YTA: Coming home from vacation to find your life waiting? “
“LOL, really? Lady, she was hurrying to get out of there because you are an insufferable woman who expected her to act as nanny and housekeeper, relinquishing your husband of any responsibility, and take a 3 year-old’s word over hers. You also lost your s**t over pancakes. No one but you thinks anything is weird about SIL hot footing it out of there.”
YTA: Don’t expect a free babysitter and complain about it!
“Um, nobody stays in the room with a sleeping baby.”
“YTA. SAHM complains about kids eating microwave pancakes on vacation. “
Mom accused of being an über mom, but is she really?
“YTA- Honestly, the baby was asleep. The 3 year old was fine. You don’t like how your kids dress… That’s not a health issue it’s just what happens sometimes. There were toys on the floor… Duh kids play with toys on the floor. Dishes in the sink! Oh no! The tragedy. Trash is full! How absolutely easy to fix by taking out the trash. You trust a 3 year old to give you 2 weeks of food reports? And don’t trust your literal adult husband who saw the kids eat food… not the food you would make but plenty of food. You bust in the door criticizing free child care? Criticizing someone who works full time having cared for your kids for zero pay? Than pick a fight with your husband? Seriously? She packed quickly because you came in fult tilt and interrogated her while accusing her of neglecting your kids… Which is bananas.”
YTA: Trusting a 3-yo’s food choices? That’s pancake-level parenting!
“YTA. Why have food you think is below your kids? “
Microwaves: The Love-Hate Relationship
Suspicious SIL accuses mom of ulterior motive for surprise return
“YTA. I have a 3yo. I’m also a SAHM. Some days all he eats is apples. Toddlers are notoriously picky and they also lie lol. They also don’t require matching clothes (or any, really). My son usually wears nothing but a pull up lol. I have zero ‘village’, other than my husband, who works 12 hours a day. I would do almost anything to have any help at all, let alone a long vacation without my kids. I would not care about what they ate, if the house was a mess, or if they wore clothes. She supervised them and kept them alive. FOR FREE.”
YTA: Neglecting your child’s appearance and diet is unacceptable!
YTA for not trusting your SIL and ignoring red flags
“YTA – expected a FREE babysitter to clean your house? “
Neglectful mom gets a harsh reality check. YTA
YTA: Neglectful mom hires free babysitter, complains about pancake diet
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YTA had a free sitter, but expected too much.
L***O! OP wonders if they’re TA despite obvious answer.
“YTA. Entitled mum goes on cruise while partner works long hours.”
“YTA. Kids prioritize pancakes over clean house. Mom guilt.”
Mom gets criticized for expecting too much from free babysitter
“YTA. Mom returns to pancake chaos, but clothes and cleaning? “
YTA got what you paid for
Predicted it! YTA for leaving kids with pancake diet. More aunt time needed!
Parenting judgment and freedom debated. YTA vs. NTA perspectives.
Babysitter backlash! ♀️ No more watching the kids, guaranteed!
SIL helped for free, let go of the clothing and tidiness!
Anti-vaxxer mom returns to pancake chaos! YTA
“YTA. You had a family member help out, be grateful! “
YTA for being too controlling while your SIL helped out!
Aunt vs. Mom: Who’s the real fun police?
“YTA. Your kids were fed and cared for. Apologize. “
YTA. Kids alive & fed. Be happy. Clean your own house.
Last Updated on August 10, 2023 by Diply Social Team
