Imagine returning to your home country after years abroad, only to discover that your best friend is marrying your daughter’s biological father – the man who assaulted you as a teenager. This is the shocking reality for one mother, who now faces the difficult decision of whether or not to allow her daughter to attend the wedding. Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story.
A Happy Life Abroad
Returning Home to the UK
The Dark Past
The Horrible Truth
A Loving Family
Important Notes
The Unexpected Encounter
The Shocking Revelation
Best Friend’s Betrayal
The Aftermath ️
The Wedding Request
Mom’s Firm Stance
A Mother’s Dilemma: To Attend or Not to Attend?
This mother’s world was turned upside down when she discovered her best friend was marrying her daughter’s biological father – the man who assaulted her years ago. Now, she faces backlash from friends for refusing to let her daughter attend the wedding as the flower girl. With emotions running high and moral lines blurred, it’s a tough decision for any parent to make. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation…
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Strong condemnation of the situation and the individuals involved.
Biological father not entitled to daughter, NTA for cutting off.
NTA! Former BFF is insensitive for inviting daughter’s rapist.
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NTA! Go home now, consider therapy for PTSD. You’re strong
Protecting daughter from biological father’s rapist, NTA. Therapy recommended.
Protective mom defends daughter against biological father’s wedding invitation.
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NTA comment: Harsh but straightforward advice for a difficult situation.
NTA in any universe ever. Seething with rage for you
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Redditor supports OP’s decision to cut off toxic people. NTA
Cut contact and consider a restraining order. NTA
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NTA! Commenter calls out friend’s lack of respect for trauma.
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Cutting off toxic friends is necessary for self-care
Friend may share daughter’s pictures, lock down social media. NTA
A supportive comment suggests blocking people and figuring out family decisions.
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Sharing the secret with her daughter could be empowering.
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Honesty is the best policy, even if it’s uncomfortable
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Cutting ties with a friend dating a pedophile. NTA.
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Fierce NTA response to friend’s wedding to daughter’s rapist.
