Imagine your 8-year-old daughter being slammed with 137 assignments due within a week, with little time to complete them. Now, picture her teacher responding to her overwhelmed feelings with a snarky comment, “Well, life isn’t fair, is it?” That’s precisely the situation one mom found herself in, and she wasn’t about to let it slide.
The Overwhelming Assignment Load

No Easing Into Remote Learning

Mission Impossible: Complete All Assignments ⏰

No Access After 4 PM or on Weekends

Mom and Daughter’s Herculean Effort

No Help for the 9-Year-Old Brother

The Insensitive Teacher

Daughter’s Honest Answer

Mom Steps In

Mom’s Fiery Response

Calling the School

Husband Thinks She’s Being a Karen

Mom’s Unapologetic Stance

Daughter’s Progress Update

Assignments Increase Again?!

The Battle of the Overwhelmed: Mom vs. Teacher
After being swamped with 137 assignments and struggling to complete them, the 8-year-old daughter bravely admitted she was overwhelmed during a Zoom meeting. Her teacher’s insensitive response, “Well, life isn’t fair, is it?” was the last straw for the mom, who immediately confronted the teacher and contacted the school. While her husband thinks she’s being a Karen, the mom stands her ground, refusing to accept such behavior from someone who’s supposed to be helping her child. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this fiery confrontation…
Parental frustration with school system’s excessive workload and consequences
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Teacher assigns 137 assignments in a week, commenters divided on NTA/NAH

Retail worker sympathizes with overwhelmed daughter, calls out teacher’s behavior. NTA

Parent defends overwhelmed child’s education against excessive assignments

Missed opportunity to clap back at husband’s insensitive comment

Overwhelmed mom defends daughter’s workload, suggests talking to teacher first.

Debate over validity of overwhelming workload assigned to young student

Defending an overwhelmed 8-year-old from insensitive teacher. #NTA

Teacher and commenters doubt validity of overwhelmed student’s situation

Commenter calls out fake story, receives support from replies

Empathetic NTA comment calls out insensitive teacher, justifies principal visit

Parent shares frustrating experience with online teacher, defends child’s innocence.

Parent expresses outrage at teacher’s insensitive comment and overwhelming homework.

Misunderstanding about assignments on Seesaw app, ESH for lack of communication.

Teacher accused of insensitivity, but is the mom mistaken?

Parent advocates for child against overwhelming school workload

Teacher and parent both in the wrong, overwhelming workload unacceptable

Teacher defends herself against misinformed parent’s accusations

Teacher’s mistake or not, mom’s frustration is understandable

Teacher overwhelmed, parent could have handled it better

Teacher’s insensitive comment highlights larger problem with workload and guidance

Overwhelmed students need support, not 137 assignments per week

Commenter defends overwhelmed daughter and curses at husband.

Teacher and mother both at fault for disruptive class incident

Teacher’s insensitive comment sparks agreement and call to action.
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Commenter questions validity of overwhelmed daughter’s 137 assignments claim

Teacher explains assignment load, but acknowledges insensitive comment

Teachers are under immense pressure during the pandemic. ESH.

NTA commenter advises OP to call school and express their feelings.

Concerned parent asks for others’ experiences with school workload

Commenter questions if teacher had control over overwhelming assignments.

Parent defends child against insensitive teacher during distance learning

Elementary school kids shouldn’t be overwhelmed with 137 assignments

Adult relates to overwhelmed 8-year-old, deems mom NTA

User clarifies app function, defends teacher, calls OP confused

School out of line, teacher needs filter. NTA.

NTA. Daughter’s mature statement dismissed by unsympathetic teacher.

User calls out parent for misunderstanding technology and assigning blame. YTA

Protecting a child’s love for learning NTA stands up

Teacher’s insensitive comment to child leads to justified backlash.

Parent sympathizes with overwhelmed daughter’s workload, tells off unsupportive husband

Teacher disputes student’s overwhelming workload, calls BS on situation.

Parent defends overwhelmed child against insensitive teacher
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Insightful teacher comment suggests miscommunication between parent and teacher

Commenter praises OP for standing up for her daughter
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Student’s workload questioned, no empathy from commenter

Defending a daughter against insensitive teacher and unsupportive father

Curious commenter raises valid questions about situation with overwhelmed daughter

Engaging with the sentiment of the comment and replies, a user defends teachers and criticizes the overreaction of parents. ♂️

Student expresses frustration with overwhelming assignments during pandemic.

NTA. Educator emphasizes importance of elementary school as service to child

Seesaw advice met with unhelpful attitude
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Parenting advice gone wrong

Commenter defends teacher, calls out OP for overreacting

Parent raises concern over overwhelming workload on online platform

Parent questions teacher’s intentions and approach, suggests miscommunication.

Commenter questions excessive workload for 8-year-old, deems it concerning

Last Updated on June 20, 2023 by Diply Social Team