We all know how important privacy is, especially for kids as they grow up. But what happens when a mom installs a lock on her 10-year-old son’s door to protect his privacy, and her sister gets furious about it? In this story, a mother tries to protect her son’s personal space from his intrusive cousins, only to face backlash from her own family. Let’s dive into the details!
The Need for Privacy

Invasion of Personal Space

Locking the Door

First Encounter with the Lock

Mom Stands Her Ground

Nephew’s Disappointment

Sister’s Annoyance

Defending the Decision ️

Sister Pressures Son

Mom Steps In ♀️

Sister Leaves in a Huff

Parents Take Sister’s Side

Husband’s Support ✊

The Big Question ❓

The Great Privacy Debate
In a world where personal space is increasingly important, this mom’s decision to install a lock on her son’s door has sparked a family feud. With her sister accusing her of teaching her son to be rude and inconsiderate, and her parents siding with the sister, this mom is left questioning her decision. But with her husband’s support, she’s considering keeping her sister and her kids away for a while. What do you think? Is it wrong to give a 10-year-old the privacy they deserve? Share your thoughts below!
Give kids privacy. OP is amazing for allowing her son this.

Setting boundaries and respecting privacy is important for everyone

Teaching children to share everything is not necessary, NTA wins
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Teaching kids boundaries and agency is important. NTA

Setting boundaries with family is important. NTA

Mom prioritizes son’s comfort and security over sister’s entitlement

Respectful parenting balance between privacy and safety

Protecting your child’s comfort is top priority
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Respect your child’s privacy and belongings. NTA, sister is entitled

Setting boundaries is important, even if it upsets others

Setting boundaries and saying no is important for self-respect

Sister accuses mom of playing favorites over son’s PS5

Teaching boundaries is important. NTA.

Teaching kids boundaries is important. NTA for enforcing them.
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Sibling drama and adult dependence, NTA for installing lock

Installing a lock for privacy isn’t rude or inconsiderate. NTA

Privacy is important, NTA. Locks on doors are reasonable

Teaching kids boundaries and privacy is important

Sibling jealousy? NTA stands up to spoiled sister
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Commenter suggests addressing behavior instead of just using lock

Misleading title aside, NTA for locking son’s door. Others BTA.

Respectful parenting praised for teaching kids the power of ‘no’

Respect kids’ autonomy and don’t pressure them to share

Protecting personal space and property is important. NTA

Let the kid choose who he invites over to play
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Sibling rivalry and favoritism?

Boundaries are important and he kept everything in his room.

Respect your child’s privacy and boundaries

Setting boundaries for kids, NTA prioritizes son’s comfort

Setting boundaries is important for kids. NTA, good parenting

Teaching children respect from a young age

Sibling conflict resolved with a simple solution

Respect for kids’ privacy & boundaries = confidence & agency

Teaching kids boundaries: NTA mom sets limits, sister upset

Setting boundaries and respecting ‘no’ is important for kids

Parenting win! Giving a shy kid a voice and boundaries

NTA parent installs lock on son’s door, resolves issue safely

Respectful parenting wins: installing lock on son’s door

Sister criticized for not buying her own kids a PS5
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NTA. 20 y/o gamer approves of parents letting son protect his PS5

Son wants privacy from annoying cousins, gets lock, upgrades later

Setting boundaries with a lock #NTA

Setting boundaries is important

Locks on bedroom doors vary by culture. NTA.
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Standing up for child’s feelings after bad experience with destructive kids

Setting boundaries with family, NTA explains the reason for lock

Valuing son’s space, but should prepare him for socializing. NTA

Mom defends decision to install lock on son’s door. NTA wins!

Setting boundaries with family is important. NTA
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Is family time really enjoyable or just an obligation?

Teaching kids autonomy is important

Parent seeks advice on locking child’s room, gets helpful tips

Teaching boundaries and respecting privacy is important

Privacy for one child doesn’t mean none for another! NTA

Privacy matters. Empathy towards others’ needs is important.

Setting boundaries with a lock? NTA, refreshing parenting approach!

Respectful parenting praised for introverted child’s privacy

Let him choose! Aunt should buy her own PS5

No problem with friends, just cousins. Lock seems excessive

Parenting debate: To lock or not to lock at age 10?

NTA comment receives no replies

Sharing requires consent, NTA.

Commenter jokes about sub ruining their perception, OP apologizes.

Sister wants free babysitting, gets mad when denied.

NTA for setting boundaries with sister who takes advantage of you

Trust and boundaries are important, NTA for setting them

Setting boundaries and giving kids a safe space

Supportive comment defends parenting decision to install lock on son’s door.

Locks on kids’ doors can teach boundaries and respect. NTA.

Privacy or doormat? Redditors discuss having locks on doors
