Imagine growing up with a ghost sibling. That’s how the youngest of three brothers felt, as their mother insisted on including their deceased brother, James, in every family event. James was born still, but their mom couldn’t let go, making him a part of family portraits, Christmas cards, and even mentioning him at every significant event. But when Christopher, the eldest living brother, is about to get married, he and his fiancée take a stand, leading to an emotional showdown.
The Ghost Sibling
Always Included
Uncomfortable Brothers
The Eldest Brother’s Wedding
Mom’s Reaction
Taking a Stand
The Emotional Confrontation
Mom’s Heartbreak
A Family Torn Apart by a Ghost Sibling
In a heart-wrenching confrontation, the youngest brother finally tells his mom that they don’t view James as their brother and she needs to stop forcing him on them. This leads to tears, anger, and a family divided. While his brothers support him, other family members are furious. The emotional impact of this situation has everyone questioning who’s right and who’s wrong. Let’s see what people have to say about this delicate family matter…
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Supportive comment, empathizing with the OP’s difficult situation.
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Comment suggests counseling for parents, advises caution and empathy.
NTA, but be mindful of how you express your feelings
Therapist supports setting boundaries with deceased brother inclusion. NTA
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Engaging comment about the tradition of including deceased family members.
Christmas card with a photo of a dead baby?!
Heartbreaking loss leads to unhealthy grief behavior. NTA for setting boundaries.
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NTA. Therapy needed for mom and enablers.
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