Imagine being a stay-at-home mom to two toddlers, barely making ends meet, and longing to go back to work. Now, imagine your fiancé refusing to let you work and even withholding the car from you. Sounds like a nightmare, right? Well, that’s precisely the situation one mom found herself in. Desperate for a change, she issued a bold ultimatum to her fiancé: let her work or pay child support! Let’s dive into this dramatic story.
The Stay-at-Home Mom Struggle
Fiancé’s Unreasonable Demands
Desperate for Financial Relief
Car Troubles and Gaslighting
Feeling Worthless
The Bold Ultimatum
The Truth About the Truck
Car Ownership Drama
Desperate for a Job and a Car
Fiancé’s Work Issues
Exit Plan in Motion
Ready for Judgment
Ultimatum Issued: Work or Pay Child Support!
This mom is fed up with her fiancé’s controlling behavior and financial struggles. She’s ready to go back to work, but he won’t let her. With no car and no money, she’s feeling trapped and worthless. So, she issued a bold ultimatum: let her work or pay child support! Now, she’s working on an exit plan and preparing for the judgment she knows will come. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this intense situation…
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“NTA, this is an abusive relationship” – Supportive comments and concerns
NTA: Run far away from this controlling abusive guy, OP!
NTA. Work and be free! But why stay with him?
NTA. Fiancé’s controlling behavior is a major red flag. Run!
Financial abuse? NTA. This is a major red flag!
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Think twice before saying ‘I do’ to this guy!
NTA. Commenter offers support and advice for escaping abusive relationship.
NTA! Your fiance wants to control you and your finances.
“NTA
girl, he is waving red flags in your face and you’ve got your eyes closed.
isolation and financial control are the first things that spring to mind here. either he needs to do a complete 180 on this or you need to start talking to friends and family and setting up a plan for when you eventually leave him.” – You’re not alone!
NTA- Control freak husband? You deserve better.
NTA, you deserve financial independence and not be controlled.
♀️ Don’t marry a controlling guy with bad views on women!
Controlling partner withholding car, demeaning and gaslighting. NTA!
NTA. He’s trying to control you by withholding transportation.
NTA: Wanting a life outside of the house and kids
NTA: Take control of your own life and finances!
Feeling trapped without financial independence? NTA for wanting a job!
Don’t feel guilty! Your goals matter.
Take charge! Set a household income goal and demand equality.
Fiancé being hypocritical and controlling. Keep an eye out!
Abusive partner gaslights and demeans, NTA, seek support elsewhere.
NTA. Escape the abusive situation ASAP! Seek support from family/friends.
NTA girl, get advice and escape at r/justnoso!
