Imagine having a beautiful, unique name that represents your heritage, only for someone to constantly call you by a different name. That’s exactly what happened to a young girl named Saoirse (not her real name, but similarly Irish). Her grandmother, who is anti-Irish, insisted on calling her by an ‘English name’ and even tried to correct her accent. But this fierce mom wasn’t having any of it! She decided to take matters into her own hands and put an end to the name-calling once and for all.
The Irish Name Dilemma
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The Anti-Irish Mother-in-Law
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Enough is Enough! ♀️
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Divorce and Custody Agreement
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Video Calls with MIL
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The ‘English Name’ Revelation
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Confronting MIL
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Breaking Down the Name ️
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The Final Straw
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Ex’s Reaction
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A Cousin’s Opinion
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MIL’s Selective Pronunciation
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The Real Name Revealed
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Mom Stands Up for Daughter’s Name and Identity ✊
This brave mom had enough of her anti-Irish ex-MIL’s refusal to call her daughter by her real name, Roisin. Despite breaking down the pronunciation for MIL, she continued to insist on calling her Ruby, just to make her sound more English. After giving a fair warning, the mom finally put her foot down and hung up on MIL during a video call. While her ex and cousin think she should apologize, many believe she’s doing the right thing by standing up for her daughter’s identity and heritage. What do you think? Was she right to take a stand?
NTA! Ex’s delusional mom disrespects daughter’s name, you stand strong!

NTA – Daughter’s feelings hurt by MIL’s behavior, protect her!

NTA stands up to MIL’s name change demands.

NTA. Irish mom stands up for daughter’s name against ignorant comment.

Proud of her Irish heritage! NTA!

Dad’s absence raises concerns, but new wife’s pregnancy complicates things
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NTA. Stand up for your daughter and your culture!

“NTA. Your mil is exhibiting prejudiced behaviour towards your daughter (and you). Calling her the ‘English’ version of her name is ridiculous, as well as ‘correcting’ her accent. She should be apologizing to your daughter and you. You warned her there would be consequences for her continued prejudice against your child’s Irish heritage, and followed through when she didn’t cease. Your ex should be standing up for your daughter to his mother, not defending his close-minded mother’s ridiculousness to you.”

“NTA, Stand up for your daughter’s name! No apologies needed.”

Brits causing trouble again? No rest for the English!

NTA. Stand up for your daughter’s name preferences!

NTA. Embrace your daughter’s cultural name and correct mispronunciations.

Stand up for your daughter! You’re a great mom!

NTA. Ex MIL giving daughter a new English name to annoy you

NTA! Use an Irish name for MIL to entertain your kid

Daughter prefers dad, but dislikes being called English name. Complicated relationship.

NTA: Don’t change someone’s name just because you can’t pronounce it!

Protecting daughter from racism, but should involve her in decisions.

NTA, dad can still talk to daughter, MIL is the issue

MIL’s rude behavior towards daughter: NTA, consequences are imminent!

NTA. Stand your ground and protect your daughter’s self-esteem.

Respecting names is important. Don’t give someone a fake name!

Not the a**hole. Stand up for your daughter!
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NTA for standing up for your daughter’s boundaries and rights!

Mom fights back against ex’s mother using fake names for daughter

Fighting xenophobia: NTA stands up to resistant English in-laws!

NTA, but cutting contact is a tough but necessary choice.

NTA. MIL’s hateful behavior crosses the line. You’re completely justified.
