Imagine being a devoted wife and mother, only to have your husband suddenly leave you for a younger woman. That’s exactly what happened to our heroine, a 32-year-old stay-at-home mom of three. Her husband, who’s 37, texted her one day saying he ‘didn’t know about us,’ and called later that night to ask for a divorce. The next day, he moved in with his 23-year-old girlfriend, leaving our heroine to fend for herself and their children. But this mom isn’t backing down so easily! Let’s dive into her story…
The Shocking Text

Moving On…Fast!

Left with Three Kids

Scrambling for Solutions ♀️

No Help from Dad

Daycare Dilemma

Money for the New Girl

Blindsided Family

Not a Bad Marriage?

The Money Dispute

His Response

Stuck in Limbo

Standing Her Ground ✊

His Accusations ️

Abandoned Children

Therapy and Irritation

The Big Question ❓

Updates and Gratitude

Taking Action

More Updates

Stimulus Money

Divorce Payment

Disgusted and Determined

The Verdict: Who’s the Real Asshole?
Our brave mom is fighting for her children’s well-being and financial security, while her soon-to-be ex-husband is too busy showering his new girlfriend with gifts and attention. She’s been left to juggle childcare, job hunting, and her kids’ emotional turmoil all on her own. Is she really the petty, jealous one for demanding their money be spent on their family instead of his new flame? Or is her husband the true entitled ass? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this heart-wrenching situation…
Struggling mom stands up for financial independence

NTA! Check for subsidized childcare in your area

NTA fights back against husband’s new love, seeks legal advice.

Divorce proceedings may make him realize it’s not just HIS money

Get a lawyer ASAP! Reddit can’t help with legal advice.

Commenter predicts husband’s 23 y.o. love interest will vanish

Fight for your rights! You’re not the a**hole here

Take half the money and leave him. Fight for child support.

Divorce lawyer and family support for NTA fighting back!

Stand your ground! It might be worth talking to the other woman about the kids and finances.

Fight back and get what you deserve!
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SAHM deserves fair share of household income

Get a lawyer! NTA stands their ground against husband’s lover.

Struggling to make ends meet while husband spends frivolously. NTA.

Standing up for herself and her children’s rights.

Take control of your finances!

Get a lawyer, make him pay child support and alimony.

⚖️ Get a lawyer and fight for what you deserve. He’s an AH.

Stand up for yourself and your kids, pursue legal action.

Divorce attorney needed ASAP! NTA for cutting off funds.

NTA for sure! He should cover bills & childcare while you job search.

NTA. Ex-husband shirks responsibilities. Seek legal counsel to secure rights.

Protect yourself and your children. Gather evidence and leave him.

NTA suggests giving him the kids for a reality check.

Get a lawyer and take him for everything he owes you!

Heartbreaking situation. Get a lawyer and family support ASAP

Protect yourself and your kids. Apply for TANIF and Food Stamps

Secure your financial future in divorce. Get his confession in writing.
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Mom stands up for herself and cuts off husband’s lover

Beware of cheaters and liars! Lawyer up quickly!

Fight for your rights! Get a lawyer and secure your future

Mom refuses to fund husband’s affair and puts kids first.

Supportive comment calls out soon-to-be ex’s despicable behavior.

Encouraging support for a woman going through a tough divorce.

Stand up for yourself! You’re NTA in this situation.
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Take legal action, file for custody, child and spousal support. NTA

NTA. Joint money for joint expenses. Sneaky gift card solution.

You’re definitely NTA! Wishing you all the best

Protect your assets! Contact a family lawyer

Stand up for yourself! Don’t let him neglect his responsibilities

Divorcing deadbeat dad chooses new love over kids and money. NTA.

Get a lawyer and fight for what you deserve!

Stand your ground! Get what you deserve

Stand your ground Seek legal advice #NTA

Secure your future NTA suggests opening a personal account.

Husband leaves wife and kids, calls her AH. NTA response.

Commenter supports OP and hopes for justice with fire emoji.

Stand up for yourself! Get a lawyer and protect your assets.

Single mom gets support and advice for dealing with cheating husband

Commenter defends OP, sparks no replies. ♂️

SAHM deserves alimony after husband cheats, abandons family. Seek legal advice

Single mom seeks legal advice and babysitting help.

Fight for what’s rightfully yours! Don’t let him cheat you out


Protect yourself and your kids! Get a lawyer ASAP!

Protect yourself and your finances. You’re in control now!
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Fight for your rights! Get a lawyer and get what’s yours!

Take control of your life! NTA. Lawyer up and leave.

Take control of your finances and stand up for yourself! NTA
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Comment removed for violating rules. Be civil in discussions.
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Alimony and child support laws are a blessing. NTA!

Protect yourself and your children during divorce proceedings

Lawyer up and investigate: NTA fights back against cheating husband.

Don’t worry, you’re not the a**hole and there’s help available!

Get a pitbull lawyer and visit chumplady.com for revenge tips!

Taking legal action against a cheating husband. Money talks, responsibilities walk.

Fight for your rights! Legal support can help you.

Fight back! Sue for child support payments. You’re NTA.

Mom stands up for herself and denies funding husband’s affair!
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Single mom stands up for herself and her children.

NTA mom gets advice on taking legal action against cheating husband.

Get a lawyer and fight for your legal rights!

Legal issues don’t belong here, but this opinion is unpopular.

Don’t let him control your finances. Get what you deserve!

Husband refuses to help with food stamps, what’s his plan?

Join the r/NarcAbuseAndDivorce community for support in divorce battles

Divorce and job hunting struggles, but supportive community offers hope ❤️

Divorce advice and therapy recommendation for children.
