Imagine having three beautiful children, but your ex-husband and his family openly favor the two biological ones. That’s the heartbreaking reality one mother faces. After using donor sperm for their first child, the couple had two biological children, and suddenly the family dynamic changed. The mother decided to divorce her husband to protect her oldest child, but the favoritism didn’t stop there. Now, she’s taken matters into her own hands, dividing child support and gifts equally among all three children, causing a family uproar.
The Struggle for Children
A Miracle and a Curse?
Favoritism Begins
Divorce for the Oldest Child’s Sake
Custody and Child Support Struggles ⚖️
Equal Split for the Kids
Gifts Divided by 3
All Kids Are Legally His!
Family Disapproval
Fighting Favoritism: Right or Wrong?
This brave mom is doing her best to fight against the blatant favoritism her ex-husband and his family show towards her two biological children. She’s gone as far as to split child support and gifts equally among all three children, causing a family uproar. Despite the backlash, she stands firm in her belief that all three children are legally her ex-husband’s and deserve equal treatment. The family, however, thinks she’s in the wrong. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this emotionally charged situation… ️
NTA. The comment and replies express anger and support for OP.
NTA. A crappy “father” and family. You’re an awesome mom!
Legal child support for all 3 kids? Family sparks outrage
“NTA He took on a parental role in your eldest life, they are his kid. He should be paying child support for all three. If his name is on your eldest birth certificate then the courts will agree with you too. NTA when I read the title I thought you were spending the child support on a child born after the divorce or conceived through cheating.
Edit: I just re read an realized you said they’re all legally his, shouldn’t he already be paying for all three then? So splitting shouldn’t be an issue.”
NTA, fight for custody, therapy needed. Ex and others s**k.
NTA for splitting gifts equally, but ex needs to step up
Outrage over heartless division of child support and gifts
NTA. Ex is horrid. Teach love, empathy, and siblinghood.
Treating kids differently creates behavior, relationship, and emotional problems.
“NTA. Treating kids differently because of conception is wrong. “
NTA: Taking care of your kids when your ex won’t
Adopted child embraced as family, treated equally. NTA, keep it up
“NTA. Biology doesn’t mean s**t. It’s all or nothing.”
Loving mom divides support & gifts equally, sparks family outrage
Ex is a j**k, but you’re NTA. They’re all your kids.
“NTA
That’s still his kid, he agreed that this was the best option to have a kid and mostly helped raise them. Legally that kid is his responsibility. I don’t understand this at all ‘value biology over anything else.’ So much bs that it reeks, you’re just making sure that your oldest is as prepared as your ex wants his youngests to be.”
NTA. Ensuring equal love and acknowledgement for all your children
Supporting the oldest child despite the father’s objection.
Fair distribution of support, no a**hole here
Family feud: Flawed BIL, divided support, and a white son
Should he pay child support for the first kid? NTA
NTA. Defending your kids against unfair treatment.
Father’s unequal gifts and contact: emotional abuse?
NTA, Keep up the good parenting!
Protecting children from toxic family members. Stay strong!
Divorcing the monster and doing right by your oldest
Last Updated on February 8, 2024 by Diply Social Team