What would you do if you discovered that your child was using manipulation tactics to get their way with their autistic family members? One mom found herself in this exact situation, as she noticed her daughter receiving more money and favors from her autistic husband and son. As a nurse, she had been away from home due to COVID-19, but when she called in sick and stayed home, she began to notice her daughter’s sneaky tactics.
Autistic Dad & Brother at Home
Mom Notices Changes
Daughter’s Tactics Uncovered ️♀️
Sensory Overload Exploitation
Mom’s Own Experience
Confronting the Daughter ️
Husband’s Reaction
Avoiding the Question ❓
Seeking Validation
Understanding Sensory Overload
Brother’s Fear
Manipulation Tactics Exposed
This mom found herself in a moral dilemma after discovering her daughter’s manipulation tactics. She noticed her daughter getting more money and favors from her autistic husband and son, and upon further observation, realized that her daughter was exploiting their sensory overload to get her way. When confronted, the daughter denied any wrongdoing, and the husband refused to admit he was being taken advantage of. The son even admitted to being afraid of his sister. Now, the mom is left wondering if she’s in the wrong for wanting to punish her daughter for her actions.
Parenting and therapy needed for dysfunctional family dynamics.
Teaching kids about manipulation: NTA mom sets good example!
NTA. Taking advantage of family and ingraining bad habits in daughter.
Educating daughter on autism & consequences of manipulating is crucial
Commenter suggests husband may feel insulted and helpless, sparking discussion.
Daughter’s manipulation of autistic family members needs to be addressed
Seek professional help for family issues involving autism
Parenting advice debated with mild YTA judgment
ESH. Daughter learned it from parents. Dad needs therapy.
Expert suggests daughter may not understand her actions, recommends conversation.
Parenting advice given bluntly and humorously with a dash of judgement
Understanding the husband’s denial of daughter’s manipulation
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Teaching kids not to manipulate and be empathetic
Commenter suggests OP’s behavior may have influenced daughter’s actions
Commenter disagrees with OP’s assessment of husband’s autism severity.
Parent seeks advice on daughter’s behavior towards autistic family members
13-year-old daughter pushes boundaries with autistic family members. NAH.
Double standards in parenting judgments based on gender?
Seek professional help, Reddit can’t solve everything
Compassionate approach to discipline in family dynamics
Passive husband failing to parent, daughter needs discipline. ESH. ♀️
Debate over parenting and sensory overload in autism.
Teenage daughter’s behavior may be unintentional, family counseling recommended. NAH.
Autistic commenter calls out OP for not acknowledging husband’s autonomy.
Family therapy needed for navigating this tense situation. ♀️ ♂️
Commenter calls out OP for abusive behavior towards husband
Mother calls out daughter’s terrible behavior towards autistic family members.
Commenter defends daughter’s actions, suggests proper discussion before punishment.
Confronting daughter: YTA for not discussing with husband and son
Engaging with a fellow NTA and sharing personal experience
NAH- Mom addresses issue, but punishment not needed. Teaching important
Nurse mom called out for parenting and professional shortcomings
13 is not too young to understand autism boundaries. NTA.
Engaging with mental health and communication issues in families.
Autistic commenter advises against infantilizing father, suggests communication instead.
Commenter calls out OP for undermining husband’s parenting abilities
Father feels ashamed for being taken advantage of by daughter
User calls out manipulative mom, suggests simple solution with humor
Commenter calls out OP for being controlling and manipulative
Commenter critiques handling of daughter’s manipulation, suggests better communication.
Commenter finds relief in family’s dysfunction, calls out OP’s behavior
Parent suggests grounding and talking to daughter for her behavior
Insightful comment from an adult with ASD on family dynamics
Parenting responsibilities blurred, child needs guidance and support.
Former manipulative daughter reflects on her actions with regret
Manipulation is always a no-no
NTA mom punishes daughter for manipulating autistic dad & brother
Commenter advises against infantilizing husband with ASD, defends daughter’s innocence.
Don’t judge the atypical family dynamic, educate daughter on boundaries
Commenter with sensory disorder suggests punishment and empathy for daughter.
Commenter suggests family counseling and teaching daughter boundaries.
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Suggests talking instead of punishing for daughter’s manipulation
Commenter shares personal experience and questions daughter’s knowledge
Parenting advice with empathy and encouragement
Commenter is skeptical of daughter’s malicious intent, suggests sit-down talk.
Parent admits to manipulating spouse, empathizes with daughter’s behavior.
Commenter defends daughter, suggests therapy for overprotective mother.
Parents need to work together to support both children with autism
Understanding the difference between punishment and discipline in this situation.
13-year-old daughter’s abusive behavior towards autistic family members warrants punishment. Professional help recommended.
Last Updated on June 14, 2023 by Diply Social Team
