In a world where everyone’s encouraged to dream big, what happens when someone tries to clip a child’s wings? Especially when that child is autistic and the person trying to ground him is none other than his own grandmother? This is a tale of a mother’s fierce love, a grandmother’s harsh ‘realism’, and a young boy with dreams as high as the sky. ️
A Boy with Big Dreams

Parents’ Unwavering Support

Grandma’s Harsh Words

A Mother’s Reassurance

MIL’s Unsettling Reality Check ⚠️

A Mother’s Fiery Response

The Power of Dreams and Growing Up

A Mother’s Ultimatum ⏳

Family Backlash

A Mother’s Love vs A Grandmother’s ‘Realism’: Who Has the Last Word?
In this emotional rollercoaster, a mother stands her ground, refusing to let her son’s dreams be crushed by his grandmother’s harsh words. The boy, an 8-year-old autistic child, dreams of flying planes and living independently. But Grandma thinks he should aim lower. Mom, however, fiercely defends her son’s dreams, stating that they’re his to change as he grows up, not hers or anyone else’s to dictate. But when she gives her mother-in-law an ultimatum, the family backlash begins. Who’s right in this situation? Let’s see what the internet thinks…
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Last Updated on August 7, 2023 by Diply Social Team