Imagine planning a perfect family Christmas with your partner, only for them to completely ignore their own child during the festivities. That’s exactly what happened to a 27-year-old mom who has three kids of her own and has been dating her 28-year-old boyfriend for eight months. The couple decided to spend the entire week together with all of their kids at her family cabin, but things didn’t go as planned.
The Family Christmas Plan
Getting the Kids to Adjust
The Cabin Christmas Week
Involving the Daughter’s Mom
Christmas Day with Mom
Boyfriend Ignores His Daughter
Daughter Clings to Mom
Mom’s Frustration Builds
Boyfriend’s Lack of Involvement
Cocoa Incident ☕
Petty Cocoa Revenge
Mom Calls Him Out ️
Misunderstanding Ensues
Accusations Fly
Mom’s Confusion
Was Mom Out of Line? ♀️
The mom, who has been doing everything for her boyfriend’s daughter during their Christmas week at the cabin, finally reaches her breaking point and calls him out. She tells him he needs to be more involved with his daughter, but he accuses her of holding his child against him. Was she out of line for her comments, or is he just trying to deflect responsibility? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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