Imagine living with a chronic illness since birth, struggling daily with pain and mobility, only to have your own mother call it ‘God’s punishment’ on her. That’s exactly what happened to a 25-year-old woman who uses a wheelchair and relies on medication to get through each day. She and her partner decided to visit her parents after a long time apart, but what was meant to be a loving reunion turned into a dramatic showdown.
The Chronic Illness Struggle
Living with Disability
Life Goes On
Visiting the Parents
Mom’s Pity Party
The ‘God’s Punishment’ Claim
Enough is Enough!
Family’s Reaction
The Daughter’s Perspective
Questioning Herself
Clarification on Religion ⛪
Not About Religion
Drama Unfolds at Family Reunion
Our wheelchair-bound protagonist couldn’t believe her ears when her mother claimed her chronic illness was ‘God’s punishment’ on her. Unable to tolerate the drama any longer, she called her mom pathetic and left with her partner. Her family, however, thinks she overreacted and that her mom is just overwhelmed by the situation. But is it really fair for her mother to act this way when she’s not the one dealing with the illness? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this emotional rollercoaster… ️
“Your mother is awful, infantilizing you. NTA.”
NTA: Mom uses illness as martyrdom, OP calls her out.
NTA. Mom’s munchausen by proxy behavior is super weird
Commenter defends against mom’s illogical burden claim with sass
Mom’s selfishness makes daughter’s illness about her
Savage clapback to a mom’s toxic comment!
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Walking away from unsupportive family. NTA
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NTA. Your mother’s martyr complex is gross and self-absorbed.
NTA, suggest counseling for her to deal with life better
Curious about the daughter’s ‘punishment’ obsession, becoming super religious?
Heartbreaking comment about abusive family, cut ties for happiness ❤️
NTA, mom’s judgmental attitude is uncalled for. Stand your ground!
NTA, challenging cultural beliefs about illness and promoting understanding
Daughter blames mom for illness, demands understanding and support
NTA. Family wants peace, but protect yourself from toxic mother.
NTA, take care of yourself and stand up to your mom!
Setting boundaries with your mom to preserve your sanity.
“Narcissistic tendencies” – a**hole mom seeks attention even during illness.
Mom’s ‘God’s Punishment’ comment sparks outrage. You are NTA!
Mom’s attention-seeking behavior backfires, leaving OP feeling belittled. NTA.
Mom’s cruel behavior: NTA, you deserve better
Supportive comment, encouraging resilience despite mother’s hurtful words.
NTA, dealing with ableist parents
“NTA. Clever response to mom’s punishment comment. “
Mom’s hurtful comment about disability turned into a powerful lesson
NTA. No excuses for her.
NTA – No a****e here!
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Mom’s toxic behavior and OP’s struggle with chronic illness
Last Updated on February 4, 2024 by Diply Social Team
