Imagine buying your 7-year-old autistic son a ‘pink’ iPad to help him learn, only to have your own mother disapprove and call you an a**hole. That’s exactly what happened to one mom who just wanted to support her son’s education. The little boy, who adores the color pink, chose a rose gold iPad, but his grandma was far from pleased. Let’s dive into this family drama and see what went down.
A Weird Situation

iPads for Learning

A Decision Made ️

The Reason Behind the Purchase

An Expensive Choice

Sharing the Excitement

Grandma’s Disapproval

Color Controversy

Sharing vs. Spoiling

Home Use Only

Grandma’s Fury

The Great iPad Debate
So, here’s the scoop: a mom buys her autistic son a ‘pink’ iPad to help him learn at home, but her mother is far from supportive. Grandma thinks they’re spoiling the child and setting him up for teasing. The mom, however, believes it’s a great way for her son to learn at his own pace, without the pressure of sharing a single iPad at school. The color choice? Well, that’s just the icing on the cake of this family conflict. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this situation…
Defending the choice of a ‘pink’ iPad for autistic son

Autistic child benefits from iPad, color shouldn’t matter

Supportive comment on accommodating kids with disabilities and breaking gender roles

Let him have his pink iPad, NTA. Color preferences vary

Keep it up! You’re the parent, not your mom

Supportive comment for a mom buying her autistic son an iPad
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Concerned commenter warns against leaving child with toxic woman

Encouraging words for worried parent about son’s iPad color choice

Sharing isn’t always caring. NTA stands their ground.

Supportive comment encourages parent to let son enjoy his iPad

Mom buys son ‘pink’ iPad, NTA but family drama ensues

Supportive comment for neurodiversity and against gender stereotypes

Red flags raised by mom’s judgemental behavior towards autistic son.

Son likes ‘Bro-se gold’ iPad, mom is NTA for buying.

Mom defends buying ‘pink’ iPad for Autistic son

Why sweat over iPad color? Just buy a pink case ♀️

Parent of autistic child shares advice on dealing with unsupportive people

Supportive comment for buying ‘pink’ iPad for autistic son

Parent defends having two iPads for autistic daughter

Setting boundaries with family for better parenting decisions

Defending the color pink and shutting down homophobia
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Supporting disability: NTA defends buying ‘pink’ iPad for autistic son

Supportive comment defends gift of ‘pink’ iPad for autistic son.

Choose what you like, paint it later if you don’t

Breaking gender stereotypes with a love for pink
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Breaking gender norms – NTA stands up to judgey mom

Defending the OP’s decision, commenter criticizes mother’s ignorance and prejudice.

iPad for autistic son sparks advice on parental controls

Setting boundaries with parents can be tough

Gendered colors are ridiculous. NTA for buying a pink iPad.

Mom buys autistic son a pink iPad. Commenter suggests getting a case.

Breaking gender stereotypes with a pink cup

Protecting the ‘pink’ iPad: NTA’s advice on cases

Breaking down toxic masculinity in autism parenting.

Breaking gender stereotypes: Boys can like pink too!

Pink and blue gender norms debunked with sources. NTA.

Rose gold iPad for autistic son sparks family drama

Supportive comment with a sassy ending.

Breaking gender norms: Pink is for anyone

Parent defends buying ‘pink’ iPad for autistic child. #NTA

Debating the history and meaning of pink and blue gender norms

Protect the investment! NTA for raising your son your way.

Breaking gender norms with a ‘pink’ iPad

Defending a decision to buy a ‘pink’ iPad for a boy

Gender norms challenged by rose gold iPhone

Breaking gender norms: boy buys pink iPad, who cares?

iPad for autistic son causes family drama. NTA wins.

Autistic son gets ‘pink’ iPad, commenter approves. Happy ending!

Support for son’s color choice and book recommendations given

Grandma jealous of autistic grandson, NTA shuts her down

Supportive comment calls out grandma’s behavior and provides evidence

Cutting ties with mom over parenting advice. NTA

Empowering choice: Autistic son chooses pink iPad, NTA mom wins!

Standing up to toxic family behavior. NTA.

Who cares about the color? NTA prioritizes son’s needs
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Challenging outdated gender roles and supporting autistic needs

Gender stereotypes and spoiling kids debunked. NTA

Supportive comment defends mom’s decision to buy pink iPad for son

Protect the pink iPad with a clear sturdy case!
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Support for using technology in education for those on spectrum

Kudos to this mom for putting her child’s needs first!
